My nikka, I am not flabby at all.
My point is, if you’re working a real high-stakes job, the weekend gives you time to recharge. Most truly successful people make time to recharge. If you are truly grinding as an employee or business owner, if you do not make time to recharge, you will eventually burn out.
I’m not saying you have to be in the house every weekend.
But, the Thursday-Sunday on-the-go lifestyle this new-age FOMO culture is promoting is not conducive to being successful in one of those high-stakes, high-paying careers in finance, technology, etc.
Most women aren’t in those careers, so they would never understand how mentally taxing those careers are despite the big paychecks.
And most Coli nikkas aren’t sniffing $100k/year in their lifetimes, so they’d never understand the work that goes into making that type of money.
Once you cross that $100k threshold, the shyt doesn’t get easier! The expectations rise. I’ve been a six-figga nikka since my 20s. So, I think I know what I’m talking about.
As a Black man, to maintain that type of salary, you’ve got to be on your A-game.
If a woman can’t understand that, she’s not the right woman for you. Because, if you wear yourself out trying to entertain her and it ends up impacting your work, your ass may be out of a job and she’ll be on to the next nikka.
You’d think that such a woman would understand the the better you a prepared to hit the office on Monday, the better off she’ll be as well in the long run due to your increased earning power, moving up the ladder, etc. But, they’d rather nag about getting out!
Get your rest, brehs. Look out for yourself and your pockets because women are always going to look out for themselves.