Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

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It def stems from Social Media.These modern day hoes are so programmed by social media that it shows in practically everything they do. They can't sit they ass down because they always feel like they're "missing out". They can't stop scrolling on they phone because they'll think they're "missing out". Their nervous systems have been manipulated too much.

Oh and every bytch is basically the same bytch now too because of it. They all love the same shyt. Traveling, Issa Rae, Makeup, Jordan Peele, Music Festivals, rinse repeat.

I won't even fukk with a broad seriously if she's active on Social Media these days.

Social media & reality tv is the new female peer pressure tactic remember when women was kind of simple less super ficial right before ig dropped:wow:

FOMO is real, brehs. Men are not immune to it, either.

But, women are natural consumers and are very impressionable.

I submit that IG is more powerful than television in terms of social programming, today.

Most people are fully aware that television is mostly scripted.

Most people are fully unaware of the degree to which developers have made apps incredibly addictive: the likes, the way in which scrolling happens, color schemes, etc.

The apps are already designed to be addictive.



These are the sneaky ways apps like Instagram, Facebook, Tinder lure you in and get you 'addicted'

Then, you add marketing teams, content creators, etc. into the mix in terms of paying/backing social media "influencers" and you get an effective attack on the senses. Instagram has mastered it.

So, it's not surprising that we're seeing this spike in women who just can't sit still, as they are heavy users of social media.
 
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Typical chick/simp response :pachaha:
Wild ironic in a thread where nikkas are complaining that their girls don't want to be bums.

Literally sharing strategies to make women stay inside and as soon as those women fall into the lethargic lifestyle, you ready to dip because all she wants to do is stay inside

:mjlol:

A lot of you nikkas on the pathway to doing dikks and don't even realize it.
 

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How cliché :mjlol: If I only had a dollar everytime is see women post this... Also working out, cooking, sewing and traveling are regular things. I dare you to post some of your "writing" too:mjlit:
I swear some of yall be extra corny the way you go out of your way try to clown broads on here:mjlol:

Writing is not a real hobby but I bet making beats is right?

Whole ass communities,, TV networks and shyt dedicated to food and cooking.

Its 2019 just relax and talk with folk without all that extra rah rah shyt you would never dare say in front of someone face:hhh:
 

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FOMO is real, brehs. Men are not immune to it, either.

But, women, are natural consumers and are very impressionable.

I submit that IG is more powerful than television in terms of social programming, today.

Most people are fully aware that television is mostly scripted.

Most people are fully unaware of the degree to which developers have made apps incredibly addictive: the likes, the way in which scrolling happens, color schemes, etc.

The apps are already designed to be addictive.



These are the sneaky ways apps like Instagram, Facebook, Tinder lure you in and get you 'addicted'

Then, you add marketing teams, content creators, etc. into the mix in terms of paying/backing social media "influencers" and you get an effective attack on the senses. Instagram has mastered it.

So, it's not surprising that we're seeing this spike in women who just can't sit still, as they are heavy users of social media.


Right on. And yes, men are susceptible to the same effects as well. The effects work at a subconscious level. You can know it's bullshyt and still fall victim to it's effects. That's why I'm no longer on social media, and it's the best decision I've made in a long time. Being unplugged is freedom. It's modern-day idolatry and I recommend we all revert back to a more nautral way of socializing.
 

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Wild ironic in a thread where nikkas are complaining that their girls don't want to be bums.

Literally sharing strategies to make women stay inside and as soon as those women fall into the lethargic lifestyle, you ready to dip because all she wants to do is stay inside

:mjlol:

A lot of you nikkas on the pathway to doing dikks and don't even realize it.
There’s a difference between having a lethargic lifestyle and ALWAYS going out. Going out Friday and Saturday every week isn’t economically friendly, especially if you’re in the traditional man role and fronting most of the bill. But regardless of that, even if a man was single he still wouldn’t go out every weekend for weeks straight. So when we get a girl and they don’t know how to chill every once in a while like the man did before the relationship, it causes difference. I don’t see how you as both a man and a nikka who empathize with women don’t understand that.
 

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There’s a difference between having a lethargic lifestyle and ALWAYS going out. Going out Friday and Saturday every week isn’t economically friendly, especially if you’re in the traditional man role and fronting most of the bill. But regardless of that, even if a man was single he still wouldn’t go out every weekend for weeks straight. So when we get a girl and they don’t know how to chill every once in a while like the man did before the relationship, it causes difference. I don’t see how you as both a man and a nikka who empathize with women don’t understand that.

If your girl wants to go out that often and you don't, you're incompatible, it's literally that simple. The only way this thread works is if we accept the bullshyt idea that all or even most women want to go out that often.
 

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If your girl wants to go out that often and you don't, you're incompatible, it's literally that simple. The only way this thread works is if we accept the bullshyt idea that all or even most women want to go out that often.
you make a half way good point. but the truth is, MOST women are like this. It isnt about them spending your money vs their money. if they were single they would still want to make moves. Its really not about making moves its about women for some reason feel they NEED to be entertained. either by outside forces or by their dude. And I dont know why that is. I wont call them crazy for it if its something inside of them that yearns for outside forces to entertain them. Mabye most of them are incapable of continuously entertaining themselves. Maybe they are like that for a good reason that helps the idea family, kids, husband situation. maybe dudes would never leave the house if it wasnt for a so called nagging woman talking about "lets go some where." But it is true. they do feel the need to be entertain by someone other than themselves. Ifyou dont think this is true for most women just remember when you ask them what they want in a man, notice a lot of them always say "a man that can make me laugh." but you rarely if ever hear a guy say those words. because we dont care that much about our lady entertaining us like that. sure if you lucked up on a hilarious chick, great. that would be icing on the cake. but its not part of the things that your lady needs to have list.

just remember people, men and women are both humans, very similar but also very different. doesnt mean its good or bad. just different.
 

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Right...when there are tons of people who can’t write, tell me how many women you know born after 1980 who actually sew, I know people who can’t cook to save their lives and don’t know the first thing about baking...and then y’all dudes consider gaming a hobby FOH.

And working out is a hobby, it occupies an hour of my day everyday, given that only 1/4 of americans own a gym membership, I’d say for those who workout regularly, that’s a hobby.

Not to be toooooo combative but gaming is definitely as much of a hobby as those others. Anyway. none of that shyt is exactly special. I've been on so many dates with women who say a mixture of those exact hobbies. Don't matter what you make or do. You all apparently share 99% of the same hobbies brehettes.
 
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Next time a girl wants to go out text her this:

Hey I'm running late can you get to the movie theater first and buy our tickets? Also get me a soda and popcorn. I love you boo :mjgrin:

Then sit back and watch a fight unravel....

Can you cash app me the money?!
Can't I wait until you get here?!
Why you want me to buy the tickets first?!
Why you late?!
Who you with?!
Nah fukk it, I'll wait until you get here:usure:

On and on and on. I've said this before on the Broli, women love to spend your money and love to save their money. Nothing new.

:ufdup:
 
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