Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

[Spectre]

I’m a homebody, I’m good with just chillin. So long as my home is clean, I can just relax and watch tv and movies and not be bored.

How many women do you know that are like you in that sense?

I'm from the city so it's like rare to even hear that. It's like almost an insult to say a guy is looking for a woman like that

 

[Desirous]

How many women do you know that are like you in that sense?

I'm from the city so it's like rare to even hear that. It's like almost an insult to say a guy is looking for a woman like that

I don’t know. I’ve always had to force myself to go out. I enjoy it when I’m out, but I don’t have a need to constantly do things.

 

[Spectre]

I don’t know. I’ve always had to force myself to go out. I enjoy it when I’m out, but I don’t have a need to constantly do things.

For a sec I had hope lol

Looks back at current dating market

...yay can't wait

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Date introverted women. Problem solved.

I think it’s all about balance. Two extroverts or introverts dating each other is usually a recipe for disaster (more so in the former).

Two extroverts will constantly fight for attention, trying to 1 up each other be it on social media or in public settings. It rarely ends without the two of them clashing.

Whilst having two introverts date can mean less volatile outdoor situations, one of them (usually the woman) will get bored easily. As someone said, women constantly need simulation and excitement and if they don’t get that from their friends, they seek it in a man. Quiet women usually pair themselves with men who are the complete opposite of themselves.

I probably posted this already earlier in the thread but I prefer a bubbly outgoing woman to compliment my quite reserved nature. I’m happy to chill in the cut whilst she’s more sociable. Most of my relationships have been like that.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Even when you give in and take em out they still be extra. I try not to pay it no mind but it really drives me crazy when we go out for dinner and my girl always make us wait before we eat so she Take a picture of the food and post it. We already had wait 20 minutes for the food to come to the table and now you want to hit me with this bullshyt

Breh, I had to smack the phone out of one my side pieces phone because she tried to Snapchat our dinner.

WTF is wrong with these attention whores? I was nice enough to take her out to an expensive restaurant and all she could think of was ruining the atmosphere because she felt the need to stunt online?

I swear, I automatically bush women who have snapchat or who just constantly post videos on their timeline. I know the women who don’t do this are few and far in between but I’m not subjecting myself to their digital narcissism.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Can’t front this chick im with is currently pushing me to the edge with dumb shyt that I see just being listed in here. I’m literally minding my own business chilling after I went to work for 10 hours earlier today, and all this bytch feels like she wants to do is nag, argue, “test” me with stupid ass requests, etc., instead of just shutting the fukk up and chilling.

 

[Sccit]

ITS BECAUSE WOMEN ARE EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE BY NATURE

WHICH IN TURN MAKES THEM MENTALLY UNSTABLE

THE GOOD WOMEN ARE THE ONES WHO REALIZE THIS AND MAKE A CONCENTRATED EFFORT TO CHECK THEMSELVES

 

[kaldurahm]

I think it’s all about balance. Two extroverts or introverts dating each other is usually a recipe for disaster (more so in the former).

Two extroverts will constantly fight for attention, trying to 1 up each other be it on social media or in public settings. It rarely ends without the two of them clashing.

Whilst having two introverts date can mean less volatile outdoor situations, one of them (usually the woman) will get bored easily. As someone said, women constantly need simulation and excitement and if they don’t get that from their friends, they seek it in a man. Quiet women usually pair themselves with men who are the complete opposite of themselves.

I probably posted this already earlier in the thread but I prefer a bubbly outgoing woman to compliment my quite reserved nature. I’m happy to chill in the cut whilst she’s more sociable. Most of my relationships have been like that.

I dated an introverted chick and it was similar situation to what you said, but I think I still want to date a more introverted girl

 

[Soundbwoy]

I’m currently dating an extroverted chick, my next time one will be introverted.

 

[Panther]

attention whores are losing their minds cause the bars and clubs closed its hilarious

my girl and i have just been talking walks in the park trying to get some fresh air on the regular

 

[Patriarch]

We on quarantine and this woman keep finding reasons to go to the grocery store and dollar store. Women are insane.

 

[who_better_than_me]

I’m essential employee but it’s enough of us where my job will let ppl go home if you want. I don’t even think about goin home. My girl too much. I rather stay at work and just make the money then be at home with her all day. No Chill. It’s looking like a monsoon out there today at work. I’d rather deal with the elements than be at home under that same roof with her

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Can’t front this chick im with is currently pushing me to the edge with dumb shyt that I see just being listed in here. I’m literally minding my own business chilling after I went to work for 10 hours earlier today, and all this bytch feels like she wants to do is nag, argue, “test” me with stupid ass requests, etc., instead of just shutting the fukk up and chilling.

Fail her shyt tests and you're for more. Women will take it as far as you let them if you don't put your foot down. They want to be put in their place.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Fail her shyt tests and you're for more. Women will take it as far as you let them if you don't put your foot down. They want to be put in their place.

i dont know if I failed and don't care


All I know is I started laughing at it and she started crying.... now I'm feeling bad and shyt but I'm still literally confused and tired.


Like there are times I rather be at work. I work partially at home now but it's too much time. I'm not even the arguing type... I literally avoided talking to her all day

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

i dont know if I failed and don't care


All I know is I started laughing at it and she started crying.... now I'm feeling bad and shyt but I'm still literally confused and tired.


Like there are times I rather be at work. I work partially at home now but it's too much time. I'm not even the arguing type... I literally avoided talking to her all day

Crying to get their way....it used to make me feel guilty too until I realized it was a war of the mind. It's simple, how miserable are you willing to be for p*ssy and companionship?

@who_better_than_me said he hates coming home because it's become that miserable at the crib. Once you fail a woman's shyt tests enough it gets to the point where they beat you mentally and you'll capitulate just to avoid arguments or nagging or in your case her crying.