Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

KinksandCoils

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Like i can legit go an entire weekend just chilling, lounging etc completely comfortable...but literally every girlfriend/relationship i ever had always wants to nag and complain and "find things to do"..constantly asking "what are we gonna do tonight, tommorrow, five years from now etc etc? "

like women cant just take a moment in life to just be...the constantly have to find something to do. Im legit curious about that.

There was also a viral pic a few weeks ago where women where upset that guys apartment can just be bare bones/the essentials and someone mentioned that women are so upset because they realize men can just exist and be at peace with themselves without feeling the need to preoccupy their time/space.


yall notice that too or is it just a biased anecdotal evidence on my part?
Sounds like you’re dating women you have nothing in common with. Are you a homebody or just implying that u don’t want to go out every week?
 

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IT WAS 100 DEGREES AND SHE WANTED TO STAND IN THE DAMN SUN FOR 10 MINUTES TO TAKE PICS FOR THE GRAM!!!
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I’m in Cali with my girl and I’ve spent over $700 just doing “stuff” because she can’t sit still. I just left Malibu sweating bullets at this expensive ass restaurant because she just kept ordering. Tab was $200 for some lil ass food.

I just wanted to chill with my folks out here. Smoke and eat in and out burgers and walk the strip.

sometimes I be like fukk this shyt yo
 

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Bump, Was 100 degrees both days this weekend and this woman really wanted to be out from 7 AM to Midnight both days :bryan:



IM TIRED AND IM HOT :damn:

No fukking way :mjlol:

I tell every girl I’m with. I only go out when the sun goes down in the summer time (Around 7PM)

I hate when ppl say “OmG iTs 100 DeGrEeS oUtSiDe ItS gOnA bE nIcE”

I’m like

:gucci:

You’re suppose to stay inside lol
 

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I’m looking on my fb n insta wall n every bih is talking about traveling or coming back from traveling or posting hotel room pics what the fukk :dead: . This thread got me dead

& other women feed off of that like overgrown children

:snoop:

Talking about “I’m missing out of life”

:gucci:

No you’re not. Summer & travel ain’t going anywhere. It’s like investing & playing the long game is hard for them to process.
 

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& other women feed off of that like overgrown children

:snoop:

Talking about “I’m missing out of life”

:gucci:

No you’re not. Summer & travel ain’t going anywhere. It’s like investing & playing the long game is hard for them to process.






Lmfaoooo


Not gonna cap I love going out with my girl, but even tho she’s a more introverted gamer chick she can be a bit excessive sometimes..relationships are about compromise tho :yeshrug:


We spent the last few weekends mostly just chilling n smoking so I won’t mind us doing more shyt this weekend coming up.
 

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Bump.

New joint I’m talking to feels the need to go out all the time.

Doesn’t want to be “cooped up”

Even today, I’m like “there’s a cold front, it’s 10 degree weather”

:skip:

Her: “It’s not that cold”

But like other posters said, they want to be seen & get off on the attention. (Whether it’s you as a couple or just her) They need spontaneity & randomness all on your dollar.
 

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Bump.

New joint I’m talking to feels the need to go out all the time.

Doesn’t want to be “cooped up”

Even today, I’m like “there’s a cold front, it’s 10 degree weather”

:skip:

Her: “It’s not that cold”

But like other posters said, they want to be seen & get off on the attention. (Whether it’s you as a couple or just her) They need spontaneity & randomness all on your dollar.

Its clout. Especially extroverted women showing off their bodies.
 

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its because more often than not, they are not the one footing the bill

nikkas spend so much time and money planning dates, paying for them, and orchestrating the logistics that when we get a girlfriend we just want to chill and reap on that investment.

meanwhile women just wanna leech off nikkas, show off and feel like theyre getting something out of yalls relationship in exchange for the puss
 
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