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Ol’Otis

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They treat you like a child or some baby.

I started casually seeing this girl ten years older than me (mid thirties divorced no kids) and here's several of her habits.

-wiping my mouth
-tucking me into bed
-Using utensils to feed me
-asking if everything is OK ten times like I'm spending the night at my aunt or grandma's
-if I cough while sleeping she'll get up and fetch me a cup of water
-scrubing my body while I'm showering or bathing
-washing and folding my clothes neatly if I wash or dry them at her place
-cooking constant meals making sure I'm full
-always calling me "cute"
-treating me as a some type of trophy around her friends

Smh at first I thought she was a bit in between of a catering selfless personality and OCD but damn some of that stuff makes me feel like a child.
so what's the problem nikka:what:
 

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There's a difference between a woman catering to you as a partner and one treating you like a child.

Well then, depends on what you want out the situation...I'd tell her to pull that shyt back a bit and rock out for a few more months.

One of the most enjoyable "relationships" I ever had was with a fine ass, really fine ass older woman who wasn't with all the younger girl bullshyt.

I get mad everytime I look back on it and how I blew that up.
 
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She's in her mid 30s, divorced and without children.

She's going to do everything possible to make you believe she will be the perfect wife/mother (to your children) until you drop that ring on her finger.
 
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