Actually it's a shared responsibility when it comes to the child.
Nobody is gonna make the man carry the baby for 20 weeks
Or alternate pushing in the delivery room.
You guys can call it hypocritical or unfair. But it's just a fact biologically.
Men can't get pregnant.
Women can.
We ALL know where babies come from. If you guys don't want to get caught up in this whole "zomg it's so unfair that if she gets pregnant she is gonna be able to do what she wants and not what I want!"
Don't fukk then. Can't be a victim of these horrible unfair rules if you don't fukk or knock anybody up.
Sleep with people you know and trust. Only trust your birth control methods to yourself.
Feel free to get a vasectomy which is extremely easily reversible.