and it's always the man's fault.... b-b-b-b-b-but know who you sleep with
well you can marry someone and be with them 30 years and have no idea who they really are.... happens daily... you can also fall out of love... you can also grow apart
terminating a LIFE that two people made, shouldn't be a 1 person choice... i can't even take my son out of the country without written papers but she can kill or GIVE HIM AWAY for adoption with no say involved??
give you a true story... before i had my son, i was with this black chick. she lived in nyc, i was in jersey.. known her like 7-8 years... but we started sleeping together about 2 years before the incident
she's on BC too so we can skip that argument.... wasn't ratchet... good girl... big family.. good home.. both parents.. never so much as drank or smoke.. so wholesome.. fukked about 3-4 guys by this point, mid 20s
so you can say i knew her well
one day we are chilling and she asks me, "what would you do if i got pregnant"
me reply,"i'd have to step up and deal with it.. i'm not a deadbeat.. i would want my child.. but if i had a choice, i don't think it'd be smart for us to have a kid right now.. we aren't even living in the same state you know"
didn't think twice about it... seems normal right? not HOH... no deadbeat.. no delusional talk good or bad.... just exactly what i'd do if the situation arose
so we still cool.... 6-8 more months go by... i still cannot remember how this came up....... but..........................
she says, "oh i know you couldn't deal with a baby, you're having too much fun out here"
me, "whatever... i'd put my kid first, that's my CHILD!! i'd do everything in the world to make sure he was good" (that's true... you don't fukk with kids in my presence... i'll give any kid anything i got... they don't ask to be born)
this bytch gonna tell me "ohhhhhhh.... well i always took that answer you gave me months ago, as you don't want kids"
me, "hell yea i'd want my kid... i'm not gonna abandon him or abort my fukking kid"
bytch, "well i gotta tell you... i found out i was pregnant... and that's why i asked you... and when you said you didn't think it was a good idea, I HAD AN ABORTION... IT WAS TWINS"
I almost went to jail that day... i seriously almost tightened a grip around this bytches neck and killed her... one thing i've always said... all my life to that point was.... the FIRST time i have kids, i want twins, and i'm done.... and god gave me that... and this bytch killed them over a hypothetical convo... knowing good and god damned well if she said "i'm pregnant with twins" i'd have NEVER gone along with that shyt
now let her have said i'm pregnant and i kicked her in the stomach like Pele... then i'd be up on murder charges... or that guy who spiked that girls drink with plan b.... automatic jail
but let you kill off both my kids with not even a question posed... and not only is it perfectly fine.... somehow it's my fault
no fukk you