Why is it "womens choice" when it comes to abortion because its her body, but not for pregnancy ?

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There isn't equality. If a woman wants to keep the baby and the man does not she should be able to put him on child support. The courts almost always rule in favour of the mother winning custody. Governments want to keep people in poverty this is why they reward single mothers with welfare.

Having kids in this era unplanned is the #1 reason why poverty is commonplace in America. These women don't care about wealth building nor care about the child's well being by being in a stable 2 parent household.
 

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Yea, she can change her mind even if u both agree u dont want kids.... thats a risk u take when u fukk.

And if she changes her mind, again she is still bearing most of the financial burden and ALL of the time and effort required to raise the kid. So how exactly do women "win"? Do u think $400 a month is worth having to raise a kid?
Just so we're clear.. I'm in no way giving deadbeat fathers a pass, nor do I condone the mindset of men who think the responsibility of raising/supporting your child and a recurring court mandated fee are interchangeable.

You both take risks when you fukk, sure, I get that, but it's a decision the both of you make together. It's her body and she has the right to decide whether to keep it or not. I just think that if you both agreed to not having kids you should be able to opt out if she changes her mind at the last minute. It's her choice to bring a child into this world and all the financial/physical/psychological burdens that comes with it whether she's ready of not. She shouldn't get to make that choice from me if we initially agreed not to.
 

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Do men care?

The sensible ones do. We want to have something to pass down to our kids when they grow up. A lot of women don't believe in having assets to pass down to their kids.
 

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Let me understand the logic that was presented earlier:


When a man had sex with the woman, he was absolutely 100% decided he was going to be responsible for 18 years of child support (25 if they go to college) If she got pregnant.


But the very same woman (who also had sex with that man) can then say, nah I don't want that baby with this broke ass dude, let me get an abortion without telling him, no problem.




Do yall even think about the shyt you say sometime? :dahell:
 

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The sensible ones do. We want to have something to pass down to our kids when they grow up. A lot of women don't believe in having assets to pass down to their kids.

We aren't talking about the sensible ones tho, chastise them. Sensible people make mistakes too Chastise them.

And your second statement is BS. I can't.
 

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We aren't talking about the sensible ones tho, chastise them. Sensible people make mistakes too Chastise them.

And your second statement is BS. I can't.

Imagine if the man can use that $400 to $1200 a month on retirement? Second property or land? Funding his own business? CS is the #1 thing that prevents wealth building to the non elite class.

Do you believe in passing down assets to you kids to make them have an easier life than you did? :leostare:
 

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Just so we're clear.. I'm in no way giving deadbeat fathers a pass, nor do I condone the mindset of men who think the responsibility of raising/supporting your child and a recurring court mandated fee are interchangeable.

You both take risks when you fukk, sure, I get that, but it's a decision the both of you make together. It's her body and she has the right to decide whether to keep it or not. I just think that if you both agreed to not having kids you should be able to opt out if she changes her mind at the last minute. It's her choice to bring a child into this world and all the financial/physical/psychological burdens that comes with it whether she's ready of not. She shouldn't get to make that choice from me if we initially agreed not to.
Unless she signs some kind of contract that "agreement" is meaningless. W/o legally absolving yourself of any responsibility u are responsible in whichever way the law says, regardless of what she claimed to agree to. And again, if she changes her mind she is an idiot for having a kid with a dude who doesn't want one, and the law will put the bulk of the burden of raising that kid on her anyway.
 

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Why the fukk would any man have sex w/a chick w/no job in today's child support climate?
desparation... being a man... cause she look good.. who knows... i for sure ain't doing it..... now

but if bria myles ain't working... i'm still fukking :yeshrug:


shyt 99% of these IG hoes ain't got a job :francis:
 
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