Someone I'm not gonna see because we're not in the same circles and/or she's a wealthy man's kept woman somewhere. Most cats are tooth and clawing each other to have a good woman who is physically a 7. Once you get to 8 you're talking about actress-level beauty, objectively beautiful women who would command the attention of most every day rooms. Same applies for us, a woman locking down a male 7 who's a good dude won.
Boiling dating issues down to "male 4s always shooting at dimes and getting mad" is very dismissive. Most cats dealing with this are 4-6s in the eyes of women dealing with issues from their female 4-6 counterparts. At best, they can work to get them but deal with too much bullshyt within the relationship, the middle ground is underwhelming play and flakiness, the bottom end of being no play/invisible.
The anecdote of "your homie" isn't all-encompassing.