Why is TheColi making getting girls seem so difficult?

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Because it is difficult for them...alot of ppl socially awkward..if ain't a keyboard involved alot of dudes cant spit from the hip...glad I was born in the 80's..u actually had to learn from trial and error...rejection is nothing but ur ego fukkin with u...u see some of the idiots these chicks end up with?.. thery are that much better than u? Naw alot if it is right place, right time...


A FUKKING MEN!!!

Also what people forget is that, yeah the dudes are socially awkard, but so are the young women. All they know how to do is reject or be fickle, because they also don't know how to traverse a relationship.


I miss my childhood of hanging out until the street lights came on and playing hide n go get it with the neighborhood girls.
 

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You making it sound prevalent. It's not. Everyone once and a blue moon you might see a fat nikka with a bad jawn he tricking on. Or maybe a fat hood nikka with with a bad jawn.
It’s prevalent where I’m at tho. A lot of these fat nikkas been fat their whole lives and have made peace with it. Chicks love a funny confident dude
 

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It’s prevalent where I’m at tho. A lot of these fat nikkas been fat their whole lives and have made peace with it. Chicks love a funny confident dude

sounds like a bum ass area


only fat nikkas eating like this where I be, got stacks on deck
 

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Getting girls is easy. The problem lies in getting specific girls. I could be boo'd up all year long no problem. However, not every man just like anything
"bad" walking around. If you ain't the type to shoot your shot whenever a woman comes by, you won't eat cause you don't use numbers. The difference is if
you have clout in which case you can take your pick. For a regular dude? Be careful getting attached to one, cause she might not be so attached to you.:francis:
 

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I see fat nikkas with bad broads on a daily basis. Being in good shape definitely can help but if your still a dikkhead it wont mean shyt

Exactly...

I see suge and rick ross nikkas with some nice women all the time..

nikkas don't know how to use they mouth compared to a keyboard
 

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They socially awkward. The nikkaz who spam forums, ridiculous post counts, and be making threads about fukkin old bytches, too much porn knowledge
 

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It’s pretty obvious that guys who get p*ssy have infinitely better things to doing. Meanwhile, if you’re unfukked and ostracized, you conglomerate with likeminded individuals to feel less lonely.

OP’s right, the breh has obviously actually dealt with females before. Having your happiness rely on the approval of a single person is sucker shyt because who knows what’ll happen to your self-esteem if they bounce. If you’re content with yourself, there will always be someone who also likes your qualities.

As some old cacs from the 60s once said:
“You can’t always get what you want.
But if you try sometimes, you get what you need.”

Keep ya head up in 2018, you Coli permavirgins. :pachaha:
 

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Will it though? Or will it just lead to them being arrogant? Not arguing that getting healthy is a bad thing. But its a lot like giving a nikka that's use to being laughed because he rides his bike to work a spanking brand new 2018 vehicle to drive in. Personally if I only got noticed after I started getting in shape, I'd be on some treat women like shyt steez.
Getting in shape will get you more female attention, which in turn does help with confidence..it helped in my case..

I started losing weight..once I got out of my anxious zone I noticed women were giving me more looks. But it's just making yourself better period.

Playing guitar, and practicing to get better at it, started caring more about my appearance and wearing shyt that fit my body type. Then when you start getting more compliments it's boosts your confidence even more, especially because you're getting validation from other people.

But alot of it is I stopped putting females on a damn pedestal and being nervous.
 
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Until we're honest with ourselves, discussing women on this forum is impossible. This is a predominantly black forum, with many of us being black men who are presently in a society where the black women of today are not the black women of yesterday or even the ones from our parents' generation. Dating life for black people with their head on straight is a fukking mess right now, but a lot of you don't want to own to that fact. :francis:
 

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Another thing is...

If you have any avenue to build clout for yourself, run that shyt into the ground. Clout will put you ahead of 80-90% of people.

Not just dudes, but people.
 

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It’s prevalent where I’m at tho. A lot of these fat nikkas been fat their whole lives and have made peace with it. Chicks love a funny confident dude

Come down south and women will tell you they prefer a "clean fat nikka"

All my working out is only for my health (Hypertension) And I've NEVER been overweight in my life.

I need to move
 

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Until we're honest with ourselves, discussing women on this forum is impossible. This is a predominantly black forum, with many of us being black men who are presently in a society where the black women of today are not the black women of yesterday or even the ones from our parents' generation. Dating life for black people with their head on straight is a fukking mess right now, but a lot of you don't want to own to that fact. :francis:


I sadly agree
 
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