Until we're honest with ourselves, discussing women on this forum is impossible. This is a predominantly black forum, with many of us being black men who are presently in a society where the black women of today are not the black women of yesterday or even the ones from our parents' generation. Dating life for black people with their head on straight is a fukking mess right now, but a lot of you don't want to own to that fact.![]()
Well, gotta navigate through dysfunction and hypergamy to thrive.



especially if he "has it together" (financial stability).



