The video explores why men choose to get married despite the cultural shift towards avoiding marriage. It suggests that men seek emotional fulfillment such as love, support, nurturing, and affection from a spouse, which they cannot get from casual relationships or roommates. Failure to maintain these elements in a relationship may lead to a husband pulling away as the initial emotional connection diminishes due to bitterness, resentment, and comparisons to other men.
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Kiyoshi-Dono
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Men get married because they like the woman they are with
The two women I married was simply because I liked them as a person
And the other reason was to have a family I didn’t have growing up
I wanted to be a father with a structured household
I didn’t have that
Plus I wanted to be a good man to somebody
What she saying isn’t wrong but it’s not the whole pie
This proves many women don’t know men
They know us in theory
When we tell them we are layered like an onion just like them
They can’t compute so they put these little messages out here in a box
Missing the whole point
Men marry women for a myriad of options
No one man’s journey to marriage(if they decide it’s for them) is the same
Or picking a suitable partner
Her base line isn’t inaccurate just missing other variables
The two women I married was simply because I liked them as a person
And the other reason was to have a family I didn’t have growing up
I wanted to be a father with a structured household
I didn’t have that
Plus I wanted to be a good man to somebody
What she saying isn’t wrong but it’s not the whole pie
This proves many women don’t know men
They know us in theory
When we tell them we are layered like an onion just like them
They can’t compute so they put these little messages out here in a box
Missing the whole point
Men marry women for a myriad of options
No one man’s journey to marriage(if they decide it’s for them) is the same
Or picking a suitable partner
Her base line isn’t inaccurate just missing other variables
Eh. I'll leave it alone. All i know is my homeboy got eloped and thats really not like him. He wanted a grand wedding. Sometimes dudes get married to keep their girl off his back.. it is what it is. In a relationship you gonna give to get. I can't call it.
#freelabor
Elle Seven
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In your opinion, what is the free labor they get something they couldn't do for themselves or something they just don't want to do?
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“I’m Sorry for 2025”
60 seconds? Cliffs.
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I don't know what's funnier. You asking for cliffs or the fact they were actually posted earlier.60 seconds? Cliffs.
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Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
Like @Kiyoshi-Dono stated, there are many reasons. Do man really marry for an emotional connection? 
To an extent I suppose. If you keep God out of it, why do black men marry?
The men I know who have been married 10 plus years mostly got caught up.
They made it work, put in the time, and continued created the union. They had to learn how to become husbands, leaders and fathers.
That’s the unfortunate truth of our community. Our fathers (generally speaking) weren’t there and we didn’t have a model. Raw sex equals babies and we try to make it right.
For those brothas out there without kids, if you want a legacy in this world, the best way is by a union. You must be intentional. If you move through the world in your 30’s without children, your eyes are wide open. Then you see the women for what they are.
To an extent I suppose. If you keep God out of it, why do black men marry?The men I know who have been married 10 plus years mostly got caught up.
They made it work, put in the time, and continued created the union. They had to learn how to become husbands, leaders and fathers.
That’s the unfortunate truth of our community. Our fathers (generally speaking) weren’t there and we didn’t have a model. Raw sex equals babies and we try to make it right.
For those brothas out there without kids, if you want a legacy in this world, the best way is by a union. You must be intentional. If you move through the world in your 30’s without children, your eyes are wide open. Then you see the women for what they are.
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