Why Some Women Get Angry When Men Rest

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Piff Perkins said:
It's funny I just met the boyfriend of my gf's best friend. This chick thought he was cheating because he spends multiple days a week where he's away for hours. She followed him one day and turns out he goes to the library 2-3 times a week to play chess. This dude is in a chess club and super active about it. I spoke to him recently and he said he told her months ago he plays chess while out but she didn't believe him until she followed him to the library. He told me when he's at home with her, she grinds him into the ground nonstop. Asking him to run errands, take her places, etc. If he just chills on the couch she IMMEDIATELY asks him to walk her dog. And despite all these red flags he want to marry her lol.
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Sounds like torture.......you should gather some folks and stage an intervention
 
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I was with two women like this
I fixed that, they weren't like that anymore.

That's the trick, you can't give in from the get go.
If you give in at the beggining that's where you lost control, you set a standard, a baseline, a precedent.

Make that standard that you require rest and your own YOU time from the get go.
That's it, it's that simple.
 
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Ezekiel 25:17 said:
Is there a reason why men dont put their foot down? Seems to be a common theme.
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Raised to be SIMPs, in a society that encourages simping by considering the hobbies of men as selfish, while the hobbies of women as empowering. Many men fall for the lie, because they were raised to believe the lie.

Then there is the other set who are just so afraid they can't gain access to a vagina unless they put up with BS the vagina possessor is on. So weak willed, and living their lives like there is a scarcity on vaginas, when vaginas are pretty much ubiquitous and easy to obtain access to by just focusing on bettering yourself physically, mentally, and financially.
 
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Richard Glidewell said:
Sounds like torture.......you should gather some folks and stage an intervention
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It most likely will not work. They have to suffer the pain long enough that they are no longer willing to put up with it. Trying to intervene will just encourage them to cling closer to the woman while becoming angry with you. When I was young, I tried a few times. The outcome was pretty much the same each time. They did not wake up until something drastic in the relationship happened or it went on so long that they finally had enough.
 
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Uachet said:
Raised to be SIMPs, in a society that encourages simping by considering the hobbies of men as selfish, while the hobbies of women as empowering. Many men fall for the lie, because they were raised to believe the lie.

Then there is the other set who are just so afraid they can't gain access to a vagina unless they put up with BS the vagina possessor is on. So weak willed, and living their lives like there is a scarcity on vaginas, when vaginas are pretty much ubiquitous and easy to obtain access to by just focusing on bettering yourself physically, mentally, and financially.
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Sounds like dead bedrooms. I think dudes let themselves go too so it aint easy getting a side piece. :francis:
 
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