Why Some Women Get Angry When Men Rest
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Kornball The Conqueror
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Reminds me of that clip of the old black man looking for something to do while his daughters record
Its not rocket science. It doesn't require 30 min. Some women dont know how to sit they ass down. They dont know how to set boundaries or take time for themselves. So they take offense to seeing their man do it. Some are traumatized by childhood poverty and pops either not being around or not doing shyt. Some dudes are just lazy and honestly don't deserve to even have a woman. And yeah some women are just controlling taskmasters...for dudes that tolerate that shyt.
We also can't overlook old school, mans man, man pays 100% and works himself into an early grave values in addition to the modern economy and sensibilities. If you tryna live up to that archaic shyt in modern times you aint gonna have downtime.
We also can't overlook old school, mans man, man pays 100% and works himself into an early grave values in addition to the modern economy and sensibilities. If you tryna live up to that archaic shyt in modern times you aint gonna have downtime.
Kinda off topic, but on topic.
I think a lot of women are micro-managers. It's a result of wanting to control the outcome a situation, poor people skills and resentment for allowing inequality while taking on more tasks then they can mentally handle. Unfortunately, this gets labeled as nagging (rightly so) instead of seeing someone acting out because they are distressed.
However, you are responsible for the way you allow people to treat you. No matter the perspective, in this type of situation, it's the person in distress responsibility to correct the situation.
I think a lot of women are micro-managers. It's a result of wanting to control the outcome a situation, poor people skills and resentment for allowing inequality while taking on more tasks then they can mentally handle. Unfortunately, this gets labeled as nagging (rightly so) instead of seeing someone acting out because they are distressed.
However, you are responsible for the way you allow people to treat you. No matter the perspective, in this type of situation, it's the person in distress responsibility to correct the situation.
O.T.I.S.
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Had an ex like this
Because she worked from home, her ass was always able to lay down and chill whenever she felt like it.
I didn’t.. and at the time, I worked nights.
As soon as I got home (at like 7am) she would want me to do shyt around the house, or go places, or go get some shyt for her, or help her with her job.
Sometimes I didn’t mind but when I wanted to sleep I want to sleep. When I want to hang out with friends, even online, it’s because I don’t have the time to do that often.
It wasn’t TOO bad, but basically she could never sit her ass down when I was around and just relax. Always had to be in someone’s face which is why I didn’t even mind her friends coming over or her going out with them.
But the ass/puss/head was good, and she was a good chick when she wasn’t doing narcissistic shyt so I put up with it. But she was controlling and manipulative af… starting to think it’s a Americanized woman thing though
Because she worked from home, her ass was always able to lay down and chill whenever she felt like it.
I didn’t.. and at the time, I worked nights.
As soon as I got home (at like 7am) she would want me to do shyt around the house, or go places, or go get some shyt for her, or help her with her job.
Sometimes I didn’t mind but when I wanted to sleep I want to sleep. When I want to hang out with friends, even online, it’s because I don’t have the time to do that often.
It wasn’t TOO bad, but basically she could never sit her ass down when I was around and just relax. Always had to be in someone’s face which is why I didn’t even mind her friends coming over or her going out with them.
But the ass/puss/head was good, and she was a good chick when she wasn’t doing narcissistic shyt so I put up with it. But she was controlling and manipulative af… starting to think it’s a Americanized woman thing though
I dont think people realize the whole "male loneliness" shyt is a projection and psyop. Lotta men finding/found peace and Women and corporations are the ones scrambling. Men opting out of Consumerism is a deathblow (men can survive on very little).
seymour cake
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Stay single brehs
Even though these hoes will start a relationship with u in their own minds lol
Even though these hoes will start a relationship with u in their own minds lol
lotta nikkas in "relationships" never uttered the words "would you be my girl"
Its narcissism and entitlement
Its another example of female abuse that goes undetected, and an example of how women can objectify men.
They don't see you as a person that can have their calm days and relax. You are a machine that is supposed to work snd you are useless if you don't.
Like this right here:
Its another example of female abuse that goes undetected, and an example of how women can objectify men.
They don't see you as a person that can have their calm days and relax. You are a machine that is supposed to work snd you are useless if you don't.
Like this right here:
If a man did that we'd be calling it abuse
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
That old trope that the house is the woman's domain
that's why you see old nikkas leave work and go straight to a bar until closing time, dreading going home
if they have the means, they build a man cave to get away from the broad
all that "man up" shyt is a farce lol. a bytch can hit a nikka with a brick and kill his mama and they gonna be like "what did you do to her" or if he reacts he is the bad guy.
Actually the psych video said women see rest as a feminine trait, and rest is not masculine. In orther words, women rest and men dont. I dont know how that reasoning came about as men human. Parts of waht you said after that are mentioned about man working themselves to early grave and paying everything, and alot of women can be controlling.