why the fukk does an ex have the need to "see how you are doing"

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Got them in that exact order on more than one occasion :pachaha:

:ufdup: you don't reply to exs who dump you out of nowhere, you make them crawl back so next time they know not to fukk with you. As a matter of fact, you don't take them them back at all, you move on and leave them :damn:At the mistake they made.
Ah good advice, I need to keep this in the memory bank.
 
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I'm just confused for the most part. Why would the ex contact you if both of you said your piece, both of said you would never want to them again and there is absolutely 0 chance of getting back together.

So now all of a sudden you send me a FaceTime request? .. I just think it was a mistake on her end. Maybe she wanted to call someone else. And it hit my # by accident, but then again why does she have my # saved on her phone. :patrice: I deleted her # but I still recognize who it was.

I haven't called her back. I thought she would send me a text but she didn't do that. So I really think it was a mistake. But what if I had picked up? :patrice:
 

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I'm just confused for the most part. Why would the ex contact you if both of you said your piece, both of said you would never want to them again and there is absolutely 0 chance of getting back together.

So now all of a sudden you send me a FaceTime request? .. I just think it was a mistake on her end. Maybe she wanted to call someone else. And it hit my # by accident, but then again why does she have my # saved on her phone. :patrice: I deleted her # but I still recognize who it was.

I haven't called her back. I thought she would send me a text but she didn't do that. So I really think it was a mistake. But what if I had picked up? :patrice:

the fact she still got your number shows that you're an option for her if all else fails.

she got you in the reserves as the dikk she knows and the dikk that'll treat her right after she stops fukking with these thug nikkas that aren't good for her breh :ufdup:

Don't be surprised if she hits you up when you've settled down or when she feels it's time to settle down or she hears you're doing big things:mjpls:
 

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mine just hit me up over the weekend like "hey how's it going" i haven't talked to her since june of 2012 :comeon: and she's the one who broke it off with me. asking me what i'm up to :laff: i wanted to be a dikk and say i'm in a happy relationship so why the fukk are you messaging me but thats not my style

i'm sure she checked my fb page to see how i was doin', she was doing terrible when we split. she sees im doing good now she wants back in :smh:
 
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the fact she still got your number shows that you're an option for her if all else fails.

she got you in the reserves as the dikk she knows and the dikk that'll treat her right after she stops fukking with these thug nikkas that aren't good for her breh :ufdup:

Don't be surprised if she hits you up when you've settled down or when she feels it's time to settle down or she hears you're doing big things:mjpls:

No way in hell she's getting the dikk :pachaha:

I'm done with her
 

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That's what got you mad playboy:mjpls:? im more offended by the bytches who stick to they word and really never speak to me again....I like to consider myself and my performance memorable:youngsabo:...I tell em how im doin,ask them how they doin and k.i.m or hit it again depending on what type of chick she is....I really cant say ive ever been dumped and didn't have it comin tho:patrice:,i guess I would feel differently about a chick who dumped me tryna ask how im doin....yeah now that I think about it from that angle fuk that bytch:childplease:
 

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my ex did this 2 weeks ago. she broke up with me out of no where in sept (said i was selfish & she felt unappreciated :wtf:). she texted me like nothing happened and everything was all good..after pretty much making it clear she didnt want us to keep friendship (we still follow each other on instagram, fb etc) , i told her midway through the convo "you texting me is throwing me off honestly"
she said "i just wanted to check up on ya, didnt mean no harm" :shaq2: didnt get deeper into it and stopped texting 2 texts later


what that mean brehs? :lupe:

can i still get that p*ssy? :lupe:

or is this something more :demonic: going on here?

you gotta remember, women are emotional creatures. when they feel down or lonely they reach out. i once fell into that trap like you. had me all like "is this gonna work out?" :lupe: but remember when they feel better they may not think about your ass. two weeks later it was like she didnt even remember hitting me up and leading me on.

i swear i never felt so swagless and pitiful in my entire life. just keep them text messages mad short or don't engage at all. if she really wants soemthing she'll call and tell you straight up how she feels. i hate when bishes do that feeler stuff via text. its insulting if you ever had anything meaningful with that person.

 

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the fact she still got your number shows that you're an option for her if all else fails.

she got you in the reserves as the dikk she knows and the dikk that'll treat her right after she stops fukking with these thug nikkas that aren't good for her breh :ufdup:

Don't be surprised if she hits you up when you've settled down or when she feels it's time to settle down or she hears you're doing big things:mjpls:

:mjpls: Speaking from experience?
 

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the fact she still got your number shows that you're an option for her if all else fails.

she got you in the reserves as the dikk she knows and the dikk that'll treat her right after she stops fukking with these thug nikkas that aren't good for her breh :ufdup:

Don't be surprised if she hits you up when you've settled down or when she feels it's time to settle down or she hears you're doing big things:mjpls:

Funny cuz I was just thinkin the same thing breh

I'm almost bout to finish school to become a computer engineer and my ex of 3yrs every now and then would hit me up on some just checkin to c how I'm doing shyt. I don't got no fb twitter or any of the social network shyt so she got no way of seeing what I'm doing with my life . I did her wrong but she stay Callin me on my bday, thanksgiving, Xmas etc... I told her one day you gotta dude now why do you persist on getting at me ; her reply " I told you I'll still care about you and I haven't ruled out in the future" .

Smh little do she know it don't work like that for me.
 
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