Field Marshall Bradley
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It's all the same, they were still cheating. Just seems like they came up with better excuses.
Nah. It's not, but do you boo
Why Women Cheat: The Truth About Deception
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Nah. It's not, but do you boo
Super TD Jakes
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your issue is with women cheating becoming "accepted" in society
your words "I think people want make the behaviour acceptable and that's fine, but understand that this is a dangerous and slippery slope we are heading down"
why is this a dangerous and slippery slope?
insecure maybe?
it's time we all awoke to the "actual harsh realities" of a woman's sexual appetite
Cat piss martini
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Thats all the bad boy wants.....he finds comfort knowing
that she gotta hot rag it and hit it with vinegar before
the hubby gets home.
that's part of the excitement for her to.
hubby cant get his dikk sucked half the time but
the badboy bust in her face and get feet massaged.
I'll never make a woman the center of my universe.
she can be pluto but never the sun.
Some women are just whores. Why you want to know why is silly. Its not like you had some angel that smelled your breath one morning and decided she need to sit on the next mans joint. Alot of women, are just whores and theres nothing you can do about that. Wondering why she did it so it doesnt happen in the future is you, abusing yourself. Who cares why. Just go or forgive your slut woman.
god shamgod
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written by balises , 13 January, 2012
@Bmaxi
I too have cheated on my husband. What's strange is he is wonderful and we have a great relationship both sexually and emotionally. The man I cheated with meant nothing, purely physical. I debated on telling my husband, being honest (which I totally agree with btw, in just about all cases. This being one, where I don't think honesty is the best policy). Reason being, not because I don't think I should be honest, not because I don't think I deserve to suffer the humiliation of knowing what I did to him, how I betrayed him, because I totally do. If I am truly honest with myself, I have to admit that I would only be telling him to relieve my self of the guilt. So we can either work it out or move on. Is it really fair to him? Why should I break his heart, why should I make him suffer the humiliation of everyone knowing, and him feeling that he was made a fool of. I don't think I should. You know that old saying "What he doesn't know, won't hurt him" is actually true, in my opinion. Don't get me wrong, I am not condoning what I did, it was truly horrible, selfish, disrespectful, and I am the biggest coward. I do truly feel guilty, and I am truly sorry for what I have done. The punishment I will suffer is always knowing what I did. But I will never ever tell him, because I will not break his heart. Sorry for the long post, also this is just my opinion, you have to do what you feel is right for your relationship. You mentioned that you kissed an old friend. Cheating is cheating, I under stand this, however kissing someone vs. having sex with someone, I feel that kissing is not as serious, certainly not worth risking an 8 year relationship just to make yourself feel better. At least you realize that you made a mistake, and I think that people that realize the error of their ways, usually feel guilty enough to not do it again. Again, just my opinion. Good Luck to you.
written by, 06 February, 2012
I cheated on my bf before right after i got into a relationship with him ... The guy i cheated with was a friend of mine from school . We got close and hung out for a few mths resulting in us sleeping together . My bf found out few mths later. He forgave me after and i promised him that i wasn't gonna hurt him like that anymore . My bf's job requires him to travel a lot and we are in a long distance relationship... but we both make the effort to communicate daily and he flies back here to see me whenever he gets the chance to ... and he is a great guy and i wanted to be with him always... but two months ago, after being together for a year and it has been a year since the first cheating happened ... we moved on from it like it never happened before ... He was away at work ... and i told him i was gonna wait till he return and from there we will finally decide how we can be together in one place . I went out one night and bumped into one of my ex flings i had before i got with my bf ... and things got out of hand . I cheated on him again ... and i couldn't bring myself to tell him afraid of losing him ... and thinking that i will not get caught and just let it pass ... Being very selfish of me to do so ... When he came back 2 months ago ... He found out about it thru an conversation i had with a friend ... He got really heartbroken ... I didn't know what to say or do as i knew i screwed up again ... He said he still loves me a lot till now ... We are still very close though we are not together due to trust issues ... I really want to change myself for me and for him ... I am not sure if he will ever risk his heart with me again ... but i still love him a lot and i can never meet someone like him ....
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Taken from the truthaboutdeception.com
Why Women Cheat - Truth About Deception
Discuss...and another thing "husband" is code for simp....not getting married again...
Field Marshall Bradley
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Jesue H. Christ.....
Yall new nikkas I swear....
You really gotta ask why not being able to commit to a relationship is a dangerous trait to have
With the problems in the black community due to absentee fathers?
Single mothers not being able to get a handle on their sons...?
Bad fruit being produced from broken relationships and selfish parents which will have a greater chance ending up being derelicts or non productive in society?
And yall wonder why the black community aint shyt
This nikka actually said insecure?
Field Marshall Bradley
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Thats all the bad boy wants.....he finds comfort knowing
that she gotta hot rag it and hit it with vinegar before
the hubby gets home.
that's part of the excitement for her to.
hubby cant get his dikk sucked half the time but
the badboy bust in her face and get feet massaged.
I'll never make a woman the center of my universe.
she can be pluto but never the sun.
Trill shyt.....
I'm trying not to feel the same way..But I definitely feel where you coming from
Because children from whore mothers grow up mentally disturbed. Because single mothers raise criminals and homos. Because women who cheat and get caught get murdered a lot which puts the childs future even more up in the air. Theres more benefit to staying together then there is to cheat but the flesh is
Look at all the damage men leaving their homes has done to society. If compounding the situation is a good idea then maybe you havnt learned anything from whats already around us.
Super TD Jakes
Banned
Jesue H. Christ.....
Yall new nikkas I swear....
You really gotta ask why not being able to commit to a relationship is a dangerous trait to have
With the problems in the black community due to absentee fathers?
Single mothers not being able to get a handle on their sons...?
Bad fruit being produced from broken relationships and selfish parents which will have a greater chance ended up being derelicts or non productive in society?
And yall wonder why the black community aint shyt
This nikka actually said insecure?
Jesus was gettin' some of that mary of magdalene snatch...god said to subdue the earth and become many (get yo fukk on) there's a lot of brothas takin' care of their seeds moreso than what the media would have you believe...
u startin' to make me think u female?
chill and have a 
Metta World Movement
Peace and love...to all!!
It's sad how many nikkas think 'good dikk' will keep a woman from cheating.
The only thing good dikk can do is keep them from leaving you. That don't mean she gonna be
at all other men.These are probably the same nikkas who have extreme reactions when they fin out their woman cheated. They been thinkin' they was the man and because of that, she'd never look anywhere else for sex....then when they find out, it's a HUGE blow to them, which eventually leads to
Field Marshall Bradley
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It's sad how many nikkas think 'good dikk' will keep a woman from cheating.
The only thing good dikk can do is keep them from leaving you. That don't mean she gonna be
These are probably the same nikkas who have extreme reactions when they fin out their woman cheated. They been thinkin' they was the man and because of that, she'd never look anywhere else for sex....then when they find out, it's a HUGE blow to them, which eventually leads to
I know right? This is just common sense if you have some life experiences under your belt..
I believe a lot of these cats are really young, or just started fukking consistently...
It's always been like this. The only difference is women didn't/couldn't go on websites and talk about it. People haven't changed it's just easier to see the dirt they do.
Some people cheat.
Some don't.
Stop trying to figure it out.
written by balises , 13 January, 2012
@Bmaxi
I too have cheated on my husband. What's strange is he is wonderful and we have a great relationship both sexually and emotionally. The man I cheated with meant nothing, purely physical. I debated on telling my husband, being honest (which I totally agree with btw, in just about all cases. This being one, where I don't think honesty is the best policy). Reason being, not because I don't think I should be honest, not because I don't think I deserve to suffer the humiliation of knowing what I did to him, how I betrayed him, because I totally do. If I am truly honest with myself, I have to admit that I would only be telling him to relieve my self of the guilt. So we can either work it out or move on. Is it really fair to him? Why should I break his heart, why should I make him suffer the humiliation of everyone knowing, and him feeling that he was made a fool of. I don't think I should. You know that old saying "What he doesn't know, won't hurt him" is actually true, in my opinion. Don't get me wrong, I am not condoning what I did, it was truly horrible, selfish, disrespectful, and I am the biggest coward. I do truly feel guilty, and I am truly sorry for what I have done. The punishment I will suffer is always knowing what I did. But I will never ever tell him, because I will not break his heart. Sorry for the long post, also this is just my opinion, you have to do what you feel is right for your relationship. You mentioned that you kissed an old friend. Cheating is cheating, I under stand this, however kissing someone vs. having sex with someone, I feel that kissing is not as serious, certainly not worth risking an 8 year relationship just to make yourself feel better. At least you realize that you made a mistake, and I think that people that realize the error of their ways, usually feel guilty enough to not do it again. Again, just my opinion. Good Luck to you.
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I cheated on my bf before right after i got into a relationship with him ... The guy i cheated with was a friend of mine from school . We got close and hung out for a few mths resulting in us sleeping together . My bf found out few mths later. He forgave me after and i promised him that i wasn't gonna hurt him like that anymore . My bf's job requires him to travel a lot and we are in a long distance relationship... but we both make the effort to communicate daily and he flies back here to see me whenever he gets the chance to ... and he is a great guy and i wanted to be with him always... but two months ago, after being together for a year and it has been a year since the first cheating happened ... we moved on from it like it never happened before ... He was away at work ... and i told him i was gonna wait till he return and from there we will finally decide how we can be together in one place . I went out one night and bumped into one of my ex flings i had before i got with my bf ... and things got out of hand . I cheated on him again ... and i couldn't bring myself to tell him afraid of losing him ... and thinking that i will not get caught and just let it pass ... Being very selfish of me to do so ... When he came back 2 months ago ... He found out about it thru an conversation i had with a friend ... He got really heartbroken ... I didn't know what to say or do as i knew i screwed up again ... He said he still loves me a lot till now ... We are still very close though we are not together due to trust issues ... I really want to change myself for me and for him ... I am not sure if he will ever risk his heart with me again ... but i still love him a lot and i can never meet someone like him ....
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Taken from the truthaboutdeception.com
Why Women Cheat - Truth About Deception
Discuss...and another thing "husband" is code for simp....not getting married again...
I had to dap u only because u bolded the good stuff and didnt make me read all that shyt!
ClassyME
Pro
I swear that made my day....Back to the topic, I think women cheat the same reason men cheat. You guys are acting like we're some sort of foreign creatures or something.
At the end of the day nothing good comes out of cheating.
ClassyME
Pro
A woman's job in life is to get a bad boy to conform..
the second she gets him to be the good little boy she
wants him to be she'll give that p*ssy to a nikka that
reminds her of the badboy he used to be....
this is why i'll never change it up.
You're right. I agree simply because that's kinda the same coming from a female's perspective too.