Why WOMEN DON'T APOLOGIZE: understanding the nature of the problem

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More silly nonsense. An apology means nothing and is a comfortable lie to a fool. Changed behavior is the best apology and trust me, IDC how much respect you think you have, if their actions don’t match their words then you’re in for a world of headache.

Men shouldn’t want an apology in my opinion.
 

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I treat people how I expoect to be treated..so I no longer apologize to women since theyre apparantly too smart and couldnt be bothered.
 

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More silly nonsense. An apology means nothing and is a comfortable lie to a fool. Changed behavior is the best apology and trust me, IDC how much respect you think you have, if their actions don’t match their words then you’re in for a world of headache.

Men shouldn’t want an apology in my opinion.

This right here.
 

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This video hit home for me on so many levels. I just got a divorce a month ago cuz she NEVER took accountability for anything. Never could say I'm sorry or I messed up. I left the house and everything in it. Told her I'm tired of ya fukkin attitude and you forced me 2 this. Said I be back in a couple of days and you need 2 call the bank and give me 150k so I can get myself and the kids situated. Left her ass standing at the door with my 2 kids.

Now I'm sleeping at moms couch for another 30 days until I can move in my new apartment :to:

Every now and then she shoots me a text saying I need to come home. I usually respond nah I'm good. Good luck being a 38 year old single mom :demonic:but last night I was bent and responded by saying see you in hell bytch :ahh:

There's a lot of things I can tolerate but disrespect ain't one of em.
 

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This video hit home for me on so many levels. I just got a divorce a month ago cuz she NEVER took accountability for anything. Never could say I'm sorry or I messed up. I left the house and everything in it. Told her I'm tired of ya fukkin attitude and you forced me 2 this. Said I be back in a couple of days and you need 2 call the bank and give me 150k so I can get myself and the kids situated. Left her ass standing at the door with my 2 kids.

Now I'm sleeping at moms couch for another 30 days until I can move in my new apartment :to:

Every now and then she shoots me a text saying I need to come home. I usually respond nah I'm good. Good luck being a 38 year old single mom :demonic:but last night I was bent and responded by saying see you in hell bytch :ahh:

There's a lot of things I can tolerate but disrespect ain't one of em.


Every single breh on this forum needs to see this...
 

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Brehs looking at a woman's apology like the Holy Grail :mjlol:

Trust me y'all, that's only the first level. You can do the work and learn how to engage women on an emotional level to finally get them to see your perspective and admit their wrong doing. Only problem is they are going to do the same dumb shyt again next month when they're all emotional again.

Apology without changed behavior is meaningless. And if you think getting an apology is difficult, try getting her to modify her behaviour. Some cats can't even ask their women to put less salt in the food without triggering a war :mjlol:
 

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More silly nonsense. An apology means nothing and is a comfortable lie to a fool. Changed behavior is the best apology and trust me, IDC how much respect you think you have, if their actions don’t match their words then you’re in for a world of headache.

Men shouldn’t want an apology in my opinion.
This
 

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I think the lack of apologizing is cutural. I find many American/western women are not likely to apologize. But many non American/western women aren’t like that. I think they place more value on men and want to keep the men around. I’m sure there are some ladies who are very difficult tho.

According to the coli, you just need a mouthpiece…hmm
 

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I think both are guilty of this, but it takes form differently in both genders from my experience

The types of men that don't apologize are typically blatantly arrogant and selfish a$$holes in general. You can scout it out

As where with women... You'll see a polite woman that comes across as nice and empathetic yadda yadda then hit you with this, while still viewing themselves as a victim/good person - I think that's why it seems like women do this more.
 

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It is something I've experienced but I disagree with the view that it is down to different focuses.

I think he disagrees with his own position to. If the issue was us focusing on the offending action and them getting angry at the resulting mood, they wouldn't seek to correct that mood by being kind, offering sex etc. That is an indirect admission of wrongdoing.

The actual reason people don't say sorry is because they are narcissistic and don't want to admit wrongdoing. They make things about the response so that they can deflect. When that doesn't work, they try to sweep things under the rug.
 

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This video hit home for me on so many levels. I just got a divorce a month ago cuz she NEVER took accountability for anything. Never could say I'm sorry or I messed up. I left the house and everything in it. Told her I'm tired of ya fukkin attitude and you forced me 2 this. Said I be back in a couple of days and you need 2 call the bank and give me 150k so I can get myself and the kids situated. Left her ass standing at the door with my 2 kids.

Now I'm sleeping at moms couch for another 30 days until I can move in my new apartment :to:

Every now and then she shoots me a text saying I need to come home. I usually respond nah I'm good. Good luck being a 38 year old single mom :demonic:but last night I was bent and responded by saying see you in hell bytch :ahh:

There's a lot of things I can tolerate but disrespect ain't one of em.

:picard: sheesh...
 

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It is something I've experienced but I disagree with the view that it is down to different focuses.

I think he disagrees with his own position to. If the issue was us focusing on the offending action and them getting angry at the resulting mood, they wouldn't seek to correct that mood by being kind, offering sex etc. That is an indirect admission of wrongdoing.

The actual reason people don't say sorry is because they are narcissistic and don't want to admit wrongdoing. They make things about the response so that they can deflect. When that doesn't work, they try to sweep things under the rug.
I think he explained what they do instead of apologizing. He also explained why men and women don’t see eye to eye during arguments based their different idea of what is actually the problem. I think you’re right in that he’s not really giving a reason for them not apologizing… though I pretty much agree with what he did say.
 
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