"Why women don't want to cook or clean for men anymore?"

[Swirv]

When you’ve relegated being a woman to domestic duties, you’re the problem. Most of you only want women to replace the tasks of your mothers. You have no true interest and desire for women outside of sex. Men are your better companions. You certainly treat them better.

Dam right I want my wife to take care of me better than my mother. If she cares about me she’ll make sure Im nourished with quality food. If she loves me she’ll do whatever I ask, within reason. In return I offer her my love and loyalty until I die.

Im not saying all a woman is good for are thé things you mentioned. Personally, I expect certain tasks for my wife to perform. Breh was pretty much saying he can do everything better than a woman. I can’t, there are things my wife can do that I cannot and vice versa. In turn, my home runs more efficiently.

Being in a relationship is not about dominating the other, to me. It’s about compatibility, working together, and being each other’s support system.

 

[KidJSoul]

Quit being cheap and broke. That’s why you wouldn’t have security cameras. If not, get a dog. Lol. Only when a man tries to convince you you to live in a neighbor where it’s full of crime and potential intruders, men need to enact a role playing security guard of your belongings.

Men worth a damn will be living/moving somewhere relatively safe, not remaining in the thick of danger.

Look at you projecting and throwing all that other stuff here.

My point is pretty easy to to see: is she gonna do the dirty work? The traditional "masculine" coded stuff?

Getting hands dirty, literally? Throwing trash out? Auto care? Fixing shyt? killing insects?

Or even just being that calm rock in a sea of troubles?

Even nice neighborhoods still have grimy people. Is she gonna be okay with having to deal with one?

You're saying all this shyt and being obtuse. Knowing full well that many women are just as hypocritical about traditional roles as men are. Plenty women pick and choose, and even the ones that don't, sometimes switch up as the relationship goes on. Very few are actually 1-1.

 

[KidJSoul]

You must not travel nor ride around areas where yards are present, grass in the summertime, end of the spring season grows faster than it does in the winter, 2 weeks? many people get their lawns cut every week. I see you're drifting away from what you've said about personal choice, now you're talking about $$$, when the target point was "personal choice" One aspect will cost more than another, we are talking about personal choice in doing task and chores, something you brought up to fit your narrative and go against mines.

I stated that if we are sharing chores, then add 'all' of the chores into the pot to be shared, (don't cut out the ones that you deem as a "personal choice) you stated that cutting the lawn was a 'personal choice' and I said the household chores were also a personal choice, but now it's another element you added which is $$$, regardless, everything is a personal choice.

My nikka there's not that much cleaning up to do in a day (unless you're dealing with a messy ass woman or man), as you're trying to make it out to be and that's include having kids or not. (most parents train their children to pick up after themselves) Most families when growing up in the 80s and 90s, 2000s cleaned up on a certain day. (Saturdays was clean up, laundry etc day), it wasn't an everyday 2-3 hour process like you're trying to make it out to be.

Women work and Men work more nowadays and neither are coming home everyday to clean up 2-3 hours like you're trying to make it out to be, again, a day, maybe 2 are picked to be marked as 'clean up day'

You speak like every family has 3-4 kids and men and women are walking into a pig's pen when they hit the front door, when that's not even the case.

My nikka, cooking meals took about 1-3 hours and cooking was not done every day back in the 80s, 90s, 2000s, leftovers were had. You act like women are cooking big ass meals like how the women of yesterday were cooking, most women cook salmon and asparagus, pasta, shyt that takes 1 hour and some change to make, or they simply order food.

Stop showing your colors buddy

Nobody said anything about it taking a whole day or weekend except you. Regardless, that shyt takes time and is very tiring. It takes me 2-3 hours to do my whole yard, depending on how in depth I go that day. And when I’m done I’m sweaty, dirty and tired as hell. Some people, who are more meticulous with their yards take even longer. Not to mention, back then they were doing a bunch of stuff then men don’t do today, like fixing their own cars, building stuff and making household repairs.

YOU said they did it to avoid their fatherly duties on their days off. That’s poor fathering. Do you even remember what you wrote?

Preach. They don't have an answer for this.

They want to have their cake and eat too, and the other guys Don't realized they're being played

 

[pickles]

With youtube available, and all the how tos on how to cook, there are no excuses not to learn.