Why Women Sometimes Leave “Good Men”

KidJSoul

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Thats 1 example of a man that isn't handling his shyt

Outside of that, they leave because

  • He has zero sex appeal
  • He is boring and dull
  • She feel she can do better
  • He is a pushover
And lastly, less common but does happen
  • He is too "nice" and not toxic enough
 

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It sounds like what this nicca is trying to say is…



…Women consider it too laborious to have to tell Men what to do.


But that can’t be right - because Women love talking AND telling Men what they should be doing.


Here is where I almost said “make it make sense”…but I don’t think that will be happening.
 
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Depends on what "good" means.

Is he a pushover? Most women get tired of that.

Does he take initiative around the house or wait for her to ask him to wash the dishes, take out the trash etc?

Does he actually listen to her or does he hear her without actually listening?

Sometimes it's the woman's fault....and sometimes it's the man's fault. Main thing is you need good communication. Women aren't always good at speaking their mind. Flip side is dudes won't always dig deeper when it's obvious wifey is stressed.

Men tend to be good at compartmentalizing shyt. Women tend to have all their worries and concerns hitting them in the brain at one time.

You can't always fix her problems. She may just need a shoulder to cry on or someone she can vent to.
 
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