http://www.godandscience.org/apologetics/hell.html
Great website for atheists wanting to know more about Christianity and the God Christians serve.
ETA: Not sure if y'all get my point. I'm a Christian and I came across this website when I was having doubts about my religion last night. I found this answer to a question that I, and several other former/current atheists and agnostics ask in an attempt to discredit the belief of God.
(1) The problem with Judaism, Christianity and Islam is that they use human understanding to create an image of God...
(2) Here is the number 1 problem with your question..."Love" is a human only concept...It is NOT an emotion or a feeling...There is NO objective basis for "Love"...It is simply and purely a human ideology...It is a human way of thinking...
Therefore, it is mistake to assume that God thinks in terms of love and hate...All indications show that God is neutral...
(3) Another mistake humans make is to assume that we are the final piece of the puzzle...This assumption makes us believe that God "loves" us more than any other creature...That is a human way of thinking...
But consider the human body, we are made up of countless cells...At any given time countless amounts of cells are dying and countless amounts are being born...While we go on about our lives without giving these cells a second thought...
If a human doesn't care about the death of a single skin cell, why would God care about the death of a single human being...?
(4) God neutral...