Why you degenerates never put a Breh on attachment styles?

[Stir Fry]

Books?

Shadow Work and Self-Mastery: 2-in-1 Guide, Workbook, and Journal to Release Past Trauma, Quit Destructive Behaviors, and Build Healthy Relationships Through Deep Self-Awareness and Authentic Growth

This book was the starting point of me doing a total 180 with my life. I've since purchased and finished all her books that she's released. I'm no longer the temperamental and reactive person that I used to be, nor do I ruminate or attach anger to things that don't serve me any more. Hopefully some others can get the same results that I did from her work. I will say that there is a lot of thinking and journaling involved, but I feel like I greatly benefitted from committing myself to seeing it through.

 

[Still Benefited]

Astrology is for bimbos and gays

Yeah,becauase every heterosexual mans man I know is sitting around talking about "attachment styles" instead

 

[The Guru]

I got some bad news. If you've been dealing with them a lot..you're probably one of them.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I got some bad news. If you've been dealing with them a lot..you're probably one of them.

Oh fukk, how do I heal?

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Hol up. Why tf is my afro american thread in the "similar threads"

 

[Spectre]

I just learned this about myself (secure but somewhat dismissive avoidant)

I date, do the right things in a relationship, and somewhere along realize I can't fall in love.

It's like my attraction reaches a ceiling.

Psychology says it's your brain subconsciously learning to be hyper self reliant and independent because people let you down/ abandonment / or moved around a lot at a very young age.

I should have known when my exes and flings would say "if we broke up, you'd be just fine moving on without any hate or remorse" or "I feel like you'd be the nicest guy to break up with and you would be just fine"

Crazy part is it's true.

Crazier is my girl wants to get married near future and it's like I love alot but I can't seem to fully fall in love all the way yearning and all that

 

[Serious]

Pretty sure most people here are avoidant….

I’d wager more so dismissive over fearful

 

[The Guru]

Oh fukk, how do I heal?

I don't know. If you find out let me know.

 

[Spectre]

Pretty sure most people here are avoidant….

I’d wager more so dismissive over fearful

I think it comes from early neglect and our society being so individualistic and self reliant

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

It's all made up nonsense. It's just an excuse for people to justify their shytty behavior. People just blame their "attachment style."

 

[Big Mountain Hélà]

I never knew this shyt was a thing.
I’ve been dealing with avoidant attachment women all this damn time. Wtf

Still don’t know what that is

Wait, how were you able to change your avatar

I changed mine

 

[Serious]

I never knew this shyt was a thing.
I’ve been dealing with avoidant attachment women all this damn time. Wtf

Yep it be like that don’t over think it

 

[Rozay Oro]

It's all made up nonsense. It's just an excuse for people to justify their shytty behavior. People just blame their "attachment style."

Be willingly ignorant on psychology and trauma, brehs

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I never knew this shyt was a thing.
I’ve been dealing with avoidant attachment women all this damn time. Wtf

Glad you are finding out about it. Like you I wasn’t aware of it either, that is until my last relationship ended. I got broken up with out of nowhere and that led me to seek answers. Found out about attachment styles and read that book that was linked in here. My ex showed a lot of avoidant behaviors. Knowing what I know now I would’ve handled things differently on my end. Not saying her and I’s relationship would’ve continued but I atleast would’ve recognized her triggers and mine.

 

[Art Barr]

if you never had a Sexually intimate encounter with said female.
Trying to ignore females never works.
You have to had a successful move made on said female.
Then have committment issues with said female. To try ignoring said female. In hopes it plays out in your favor. When said female you are avoiding.
after being intimate.
Was more than likely a non-committal. That you inaccurrately vet'd. Which boils down to taking accountability as a man.


Hopefully you guys stop using flawed roush playbook ideas. As it was exposed in trump first term.
roush was a maga troll.
That should not be listened to.

Plus his book of poke. Was written for white men.
Which has no game to pull black women. Sohh if you are black. Stop following false doctrine.
then get you some real game.

if you struggle.
or you confused with the message. in this post.

then that is why you not lothario.

Art Barr