Why you degenerates never put a Breh on attachment styles?

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I just learned this about myself (secure but somewhat dismissive avoidant)

I date, do the right things in a relationship, and somewhere along realize I can't fall in love.

It's like my attraction reaches a ceiling.

Psychology says it's your brain subconsciously learning to be hyper self reliant and independent because people let you down/ abandonment / or moved around a lot at a very young age.

I should have known when my exes and flings would say "if we broke up, you'd be just fine moving on without any hate or remorse" or "I feel like you'd be the nicest guy to break up with and you would be just fine"

Crazy part is it's true.

Crazier is my girl wants to get married near future and it's like I love alot but I can't seem to fully fall in love all the way yearning and all that
Actually this archetype is good for marriage, as long as the woman knows that you shouldn't put her above your purpose.
 

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if you never had a Sexually intimate encounter with said female.
Trying to ignore females never works.
You have to had a successful move made on said female.
Then have committment issues with saod female. To tey ignoring said female. In hopes it olays out in your favor. When said female you are avoiding.
after being intimate.
Was more than likely a non-committal. That you inaccurrately vet'd. Which boils down to tskijg accountsbility as a man.


Hopefully you guys stop using flawed roush playbook ideas. As it was exposed in truno first tern roush was a maga troll.
That should.not be listened to.

Plus his book of poke. Was written for white men.
Which has no game to pull black women. Sohh if you are black. Stop following false doctrine.
then get you some real game.

if you struggle.
or you confused with the message. in this post.

then that is why you not lothario.

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Wtf are you saying and where is the real game mate?
 

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Wtf are you saying and where is the real game mate?


Are you from the uk?

Using a term like mate.



Anyway.

Simple game = it is about mating first.

Next
Observation is the key.

Followed up with learning to listen. Which leads to learning to stfu to listen.


Past those basic concepts and variable.
I need to know.
if you are black?

As i am not about to sit and disclose information.
about pulling black women. To a white guy from across the pond.
As black women from the uk prefer black american men. Plus approach black american men pre-emptively.
Sohh work is much easier.
for me as an american.
Than for you. If you are a brit.


As of right now.

You proving my statement right.
Which is why you not lothario.

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Some psychology shyt mfers are using now to try and blame on why women aint fukkin with them


This.

You can not pursue.
Somebody that is not into you.

Stop trying to sway a no..
Females are a numbers game..
you have to Fail, till you succeed.

Which means...
if ol girl not receptive to you . Delete her number and go back out and hunt.
Also location, location. Location.

If you not in a major city. Then you will not have a major pool of attractive suitors to suit your needs.

So move to an urban intellectal forward advanced arena with a public transit system.



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if you never had a Sexually intimate encounter with said female.
Trying to ignore females never works.
You have to had a successful move made on said female.
Then have committment issues with said female. To try ignoring said female. In hopes it plays out in your favor. When said female you are avoiding.
after being intimate.
Was more than likely a non-committal. That you inaccurrately vet'd. Which boils down to taking accountsbility as a man
.

Art Barr
Lowkey a lot of game here :wow:
 

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This thread makes no sense to me.




That is why you not lothario.

If you black chasing le'che.

You don't have game.
you not a mack.
or a playa.

As white american women are the most sexually liberated in the history of the world.
So if you on here. Thinking roush book of poke semantics.
Ala red pill slash blue pill helps with white women

Yousa goofie lame and got no game.

As roush bullshyt is for white men. Who have issues with females.
Plus does not work on black women. As black women are not white. Plus black women do not even go for nikkaz with those types of issues. So if you using any of that bullshyt. That is why you fail.

Plus why you not lothario.


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