#WhyIsStayed Women chime in on hashtag about abusive relationships

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yet ure blaming them for getting beat on? :mindblown:

thats the same thing! :wtf:
remember the tweets is about "abuse"

Abuse is not always physical.
Physical abuse cannot be tolerated.

But most women put the blame on their ex's everytime a relationship fails
 

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and here come from the shaming tactics, just because a man doesn't agree with you or your stance doesn't mean he's bitter.
you're coming off as bitter....we're not talking about bytches that chase after aint shyt dudes.

Most of the women tweeting under that hashtag were in relationships with successful men...men that attended church. Not men that were deadbeats or in and out of jail!

Be logical here breh
 

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But didn't yall just say in the other thread social media isn't representative of black males when comes to the dumb ignorant shyt said because of trolling and dumb nikkas???? And that you don't use social media to form opinions....LMAO look at this thread.

Can't we chalk this up to trolling and dumb hoes instead of all women...
 

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u get the point tho right?

Abuse is abuse....you come off pretty fukkin abusive on here if u ask me
I don't hit women...never have, never will.
But I do say my mind in relationships...

Most men have never dated a woman who will admit their previous relationship failures were their fault.
 

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I don't hit women...never have, never will.
But I do say my mind in relationships...

Most men have never dated a woman who will admit their previous relationship failures were their fault.
True shyt. Women are not logical. They don't take responsibility for their actions. And they love drama. Therefore I find it hard to believe a lot of these girls who claim that they are being "abused".

Its 2014. If your dude hits you call the cops and get a restraining order. Simple as pie
 

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True shyt. Women are not logical. They don't take responsibility for their actions. And they love drama. Therefore I find it hard to believe a lot of these girls who claim that they are being "abused".

Its 2014. If your dude hits you call the cops and get a restraining order. Simple as pie

its laways like "he was so sweet and nice in teh beginning"

then you can google the nikkas name and his rap sheet is longer than the dead sea scrolls

the majority of these women "love" their abuser which is why they never do or say anything and continue to lie i fell down the stairs, walked into a door etc.


you get more loyalty being a woman's problem than her problem solver in this day and age
 

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There are certainly a fair share of women who get abused in relationships that get the battered woman syndrome which causes them to feel like they're inadququate and not worthy of anything better. I truly feel for those women.


But there are also many chicks that stick in these tumultuous relationships who feel like they can a change a dude or who subconsiously enjoy the thrill of an abusive relationship. These women I have no sympathy for :camby: Every woman can't use the battered woman excuse
 

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I really make it a point to empathize with folks from backgrounds that aren't mine and with different opinions. At least I get where they're coming from, even if I don't agree with it.

I just straight up don't get this. There is just no getting my head around me wanting to continue being in the presence of someone who hit me in the face. At all.
 

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In all serious, I have to ask: how can conversations be approached while in a relationship with a woman?

I've dated to a few women (stand-up chicks) and have had stories of past domestic violence and rape come to light after a while. If you're getting to know a woman and you're intrigued in something long-term, when is it the right time to get into these topics before you take that next step (whatever it may be) or do you just wait and find out after the fact? :ld:

Would it be frowned upon if you didn't want to continue dating a woman that stayed in an abusive relationship for a long time? :ld:
 

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nah they don't

like I said i feel no sympathy for sob stories that women tell me anyways. I've never met a woman who had a decent ex, all of her exes were cheaters, abusers, players etc.

common denominator is you thot


ok. Have you ever been to a sheltered woman rehab ? You ever seen a woman suffering from an abusive relatioship ?

You're dead wrong here. Most women blame themselves, or think the guy has the right to. That's the rerason most of them stay. I cared for a woman who was beaten unconscious beacuse she didn't cook his favorite meal that day. When the police were telling us the story, it was sad. Dude almost killed her cuz she didn't cook what he wanted to eat.

So how's that the woman's fault ? You need to stop acting like your opinion/ideas are facts
 

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In all serious, I have to ask: how can conversations be approached while in a relationship with a woman?

I've dated to a few women (stand-up chicks) and have had stories of past domestic violence and rape come to light after a while. If you're getting to know a woman and you're intrigued in something long-term, when is it the right time to get into these topics before you take that next step (whatever it may be) or do you just wait and find out after the fact? :ld:

Would it be frowned upon if you didn't want to continue dating a woman that stayed in an abusive relationship for a long time? :ld:
To answer the last question. No, depending on the reason she stayed.
 
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