Wife Stopped By My Job

[GreenGhxst]

Neither. It was the fact that she was there.

Do you have issue with her answering your phone calls from your supervisor and showing up to your job

If so, how did that conversation go?

 

[MustafaSTL]

If they were to terminate due to my wife filing a complaint against them then that would be an example of retaliation, and I would have grounds for legal action. Also the supervisor in question is not my supervisor, technically, I do not answer to them, I answer to the operations manager. had it been me, I would have gone another route, but that's my wife. I will tell her she's wrong in private, but I'm not going to go against her in public or on some forum. And from what i was told, she was very professional in airing her grievances, so I can't really get mad at her for dealing with something she obviously felt was a serious issue.

That being said...a heads up would have been cool.

I’ve never seen a successful retaliation claim because someone’s spouse complained about someone questioning if the spouse was truthful. Was there a complaint of discrimination? If not, her complaint is not considered protected activity.

 

[8WON6]

You don't call somebody's spouse talking to them like that person is your employee. I can't believe anybody thinks she's wrong here.

 

[Raizan]

Nah if my girl showed up to my job id call her fukking crazy...I'm a grown ass man, I can handle my own shyt

And why the fukk are they calling the home? You still got a home phone, you like 55 years old? Cos if you that old, I take it back

I'm 49. And the landline was free with our internet package. It helps so that people that I don't know don't have access to my or her cell phone.People keep forgetting that it wasn't me that felt disrespected. I didn't take the call. I had no idea this even occurred until I got to work.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

You don't call somebody's spouse talking to them like that person is your employee. I can't believe anybody thinks she's wrong here.

They didnt talk to her like an employee, but they crossed the line prying into their business

That dont make how the wife handled it right

 

[Diunx]

So your wife bullshyted your co-worker, the co-worker saw through the BS and your wife got mad that she went out of her way to confront someone she lied to

 

[levitate]

She should have informed you.

 

[xCivicx]

Im not mad at this at all

 

[O.T.I.S.]

ppl cosigning this?


Good luck op

Yeah… idk if this is good or bad

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

ppl cosigning this?


Good luck op

It sounds risky, but the job market is the way it is because people don't speak up for themselves. And if you have some pull at your workplace, this ain't a big deal really.

 

[Raizan]

I’ve never seen a successful retaliation claim because someone’s spouse complained about someone questioning if the spouse was truthful. Was there a complaint of discrimination? If not, her complaint is not considered protected activity.

The retaliation claim would come about if they fired ME because SHE filed the formal complaint. It would never happen on something this minor, but ya never know how foolish some folks can be.

 

[Raizan]

It sounds risky, but the job market is the way it is because people don't speak up for themselves. And if you have some pull at your workplace, this ain't a big deal really.

I've been there 23 years... I should be good. At home now, so I was able to ask Yvonne if there was something about this story that I was leaving out, and she says that this incident isn't the first time that this particular supervisor has gotten out of pocket with her over the phone. Apparently This was the 3rd time that they had butted heads, and she was tired of it.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

your wife is cool as hell OP

wish my girl liked me that much.

Why you think it’s about him?
She could have felt disrespected herself regardless of him.

Or could have been about him too.
But if she showed up without telling him first it perhaps wasn’t about him.

 

[LuuqMaan]

I’d say, take a loss in this situation, try to look for a better job and tell her she wrong for ever side stepping you like that.
You can be proud in public all you want but that woman did whatever she felt like and may have fukked your bag up for a little bit

I know her actions eating you up but you gotta smile through it


Don’t let it happen again when you start your new job

 

[Yaboysix]

My wife would've discussed it with me before she made ANY moves.

As I would do with her.