Wifing/dating a chick your mans smashed or wifed

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Some dudes don't mind....We ran through my cousin's fiance' back in the day. I guess they are in love though.
 

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never stay in a small town, breh's.
especially, if the only attractive females have been fukked't.
or, in relationships with your rap's.

art barr
 
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:huhldup:A bytch my lil cuz used to fukk hit me up on facebook on some gimme a chance type shyt. Cuzzo didn't give a fukk cuz he was booed up. Problem was I was jus tryna smidash and she wanted more..
...and by more I mean she wanted to have my baby
 

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The thing is,

I have friends that I used to be tight with like 12 years ago. And today I might see them like once every 2 years.
So if I was in a situation where I could date a girl one of them dated back then....I might.

Statute of limitations and shyt.
And the fact that me and the homie might not even be that close like back in the day.

:ehh:
 

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i cant even lie brehs i wanted to smash a chick one of my mans hit

heres the thing

he only hit once or twice but she wanted to be more than a quick bang so she was making hints to him, he noticed and said they cant see eachother anymore cause he aint feeling her in that way, so im like seems legit, a few months later i check out the chick and im like damn why did this fool not stay with her or something, cute lightskin chick, didnt wear make up at all had this great natural look, now i never holla at chicks my guys have hit but i said fuk it and contacted her via instagram (:skip:) got her number but only spoke briefly, put her on stand by, havnt met up or anyting but damn i want to but the things my guy told me he did with her leaves crazy visions in my head gawd, not that i think about it or anything but the chick is wifey status imo, but yeah i didnt tell the guys i spoke to her, just thought she should of been treated better :manny: am i a simp?
 

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i cant even lie brehs i wanted to smash a chick one of my mans hit

heres the thing

he only hit once or twice but she wanted to be more than a quick bang so she was making hints to him, he noticed and said they cant see eachother anymore cause he aint feeling her in that way, so im like seems legit, a few months later i check out the chick and im like damn why did this fool not stay with her or something, cute lightskin chick, didnt wear make up at all had this great natural look, now i never holla at chicks my guys have hit but i said fuk it and contacted her via instagram (:skip:) got her number but only spoke briefly, put her on stand by, havnt met up or anyting but damn i want to but the things my guy told me he did with her leaves crazy visions in my head gawd, not that i think about it or anything but the chick is wifey status imo, but yeah i didnt tell the guys i spoke to her, just thought she should of been treated better :manny: am i a simp?


you ain't got to be committals, breh.
call her, and get it crack'n, fool.



art barr
 

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If you find yourself in a position where you're thinking about cuffin a chick that your boy done been in, then you need a larger network of females.
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There is no fukkin way that I would ever wife up a bytch that one of my homies have already smashed :camby:

i wouldn't do it, but I know some nikkas who have and they seem happy. it's life.

Smash, yes. Wife? No
It's really not that serious, brehs. People are people and we all have a past. Please see my initial post in the first page.

I know this chick I used to smash back in 2007-2008 that is now dating a good friend of mine. Granted I just met dude like... last year but he went to school with some of our common friends and we're pretty cool. Just about 6 months ago he started talking to her and they've been spending a lot of time together. Look, It was just a fukk thing between her and I so i couldnt care less. We'd hang out, have a few drinks and smash or one of us just be heading home from the club or whatever and call each other and stop by, fukk and go to breakfast in the AM and see you next time type sh!t.
When I see them together, they seem pretty happy and very into each other so who am I to hate on that or try to ruin two other people's happiness by opening my big mouth.:manny:
The only awkward thing is we have a couple of people within the circle that THINK she and I used to fukk (they always wondered how come we knew each other outside the circle) but she and I have stood by our story and never cracked under the pressure. Out of respect for her and homie they dont press us about it in front of him but you know women love to gossip and i know they've asked her about it the same way they tease and bug me about it.

Look, If i were to meet a chick that I end up really liking and found out that somehow one of my homies used to fukk her i dont think i'd let it change things between her and I. Everyone has a past. Live and let live, brehs.
 
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My wife was a virgin when we met. Weve been close to divorce (we have our problems) but we always make up. Point is i dont think i could ever be with a chick thats not a virgin again.

:scusthov: Imagine all of the dikks that pass through they mouths and puss......id never get married again
 

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It's really not that serious, brehs. People are people and we all have a past. Please see my initial post in the first page.

I know this chick I used to smash back in 2007-2008 that is now dating a good friend of mine. Granted I just met dude like... last year but he went to school with some of our common friends and we're pretty cool. Just about 6 months ago he started talking to her and they've been spending a lot of time together. Look, It was just a fukk thing between her and I so i couldnt care less. We'd hang out, have a few drinks and smash or one of us just be heading home from the club or whatever and call each other and stop by, fukk and go to breakfast in the AM and see you next time type sh!t.
When I see them together, they seem pretty happy and very into each other so who am I to hate on that or try to ruin two other people's happiness by opening my big mouth.:manny:
The only awkward thing is we have a couple of people within the circle that THINK she and I used to fukk (they always wondered how come we knew each other outside the circle) but she and I have stood by our story and never cracked under the pressure. Out of respect for her and homie they dont press us about it in front of him but you know women love to gossip and i know they've asked her about it the same way they tease and bug me about it.

Look, If i were to meet a chick that I end up really liking and found out that somehow one of my homies used to fukk her i dont think i'd let it change things between her and I. Everyone has a past. Live and let live, brehs.

Horrible example man. You're not the one who wifed up the chick that your homie already smashed
 

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Horrible example man. You're not the one who wifed up the chick that your homie already smashed
I did mention that if i were to meet a chick that my homie smashed id probably not care depending on how much i like her. I know im saying this now and have never been in that position (that i know of) but still
 
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