Woman ask why dont men go through they girls phone

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Most nikkas already know in they heart of hearts that the bytch aint shyt and rather just keep the peace/sex than fukk up a good thing they got going.


its not even that....

any woman will have men shooting their shots in her texts and DMs...yes...your woman too....and sometimes she might entertain them....she's human....
 
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its not even that....

any woman will have men shooting their shots in her texts and DMs...yes...your woman too....and sometimes she might entertain them....she's human....
no not my girl :duck: like she's an OBJECT of their idealism instead of a HUMAN BEING with biology like everyone else
idk what world these nikkas live in :mjlol:
am I going to be constantly checking a woman's phone over and over?
no there is nothing I can do if she wants to cheat or wants to sneak and never make me find out
But it's not good to be completely naïve either or be that girl's idiot like my girl is some abstract idea of idealism instead of a human being I have compatibility with like everyone else
Of course I'm making sure I'm not getting duped just in case the longer it goes on the worse the betrayal will feel when you find out so if it means going through a phone, keylogger, etc. so be it idgaf
Which means she isn't immune to behavior that will hurt me like anyone else's girl
They just want to be that nikka whose girl doesn't do that to them so they can run and tell other men you just haven't found a good girl like my girl :rudy:
 
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Breh I agree with what you, @Deep_Black_Conscious , @TRUEST and other brehs are saying and I have looked thru phones myself when I was in my 20s.

But I do agree that it’s pointless. She can be creeping and u find 0 evidence. She can be innocent and u find something that looks like something it ain’t. I agree it’s better to just let her go if she even make u feel like you got look thru her stuff.

It's weird because when I'm saying you should look thru their phones...
I'm not saying it like your the bytches dad .. and u just acting all crazy...

I just mean it like, all that passcode, and being all secretive wit phones and social media shyt is a no no .. we have access to each other's shyt anytime we feel like it.
Not just because you think some thing is up ..

But honestly bro .. if she's doing something, there isn't a way you're not gonna see evidence.
Most nikkaz just ain't looking...

I'll keep saying it...
Every chick that cheats has one thing in common, a very trusting Man at home
 

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If your going into relationship thinking the other persons gonna cheat on you or you have suspicious at anytime you really shouldn’t be with that person.
 

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If you aint going through her phone you a damn sucka.

Crazy how we actually still got brehs falling for the "don't be insecure"/"I'm not insecure so don't need to 😤" okie doke in the 20's :mjlol:
 

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If you aint going through her phone you a damn sucka.

Crazy how we actually still got brehs falling for the "don't be insecure"/"I'm not insecure so don't need to 😤" okie doke in the 20's :mjlol:
A better position to be in is to not care. How do you do that? Have a hobby that consumes your time. And have a few female friends. They don’t have to be fucck buddies. Although they may drop u if they find u have no sexual interest in them. And if they do drop you, that’s ok too. Why? U got sh1t to do :youngsabo:
 

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A better position to be in is to not care. How do you do that? Have a hobby that consumes your time. And have a few female friends. They don’t have to be fucck buddies. Although they may drop u if they find u have no sexual interest in them. And if they do drop you, that’s ok too. Why? U got sh1t to do :youngsabo:

Oh naw breh you BETTER CARE.

Not obsessive care but you need to care as you're investing time, emotionally and also financially. So you damn sure need to know if your woman is acting correct.
 

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Oh naw breh you BETTER CARE.

Not obsessive care but you need to care as you're investing time, emotionally and also financially. So you damn sure need to know if your woman is acting correct.
Lol you still don’t get it. You have to automatically assume she’s already cheating. And look for opportunities to validate that. Take her out in public. How does she act when she sees someone attractive. Take note of that. How many guy friends are texting her. A man can only be authentically cool and nonchalant if he possesses wisdom and his time is occupied with worthwhile matters. Playing inspector gadget on a “commodity” that can walk outta ur life at anytime, is not worthwhile.
 

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All women are entertaining other men. Most women be deleting chats but sometimes you can catch em slipping.

I don't do serious relationships anymore but back when I did, I learned that women are always still texting their ex as well as exchanging inappropriate texts with other guys. And they always lie about who the guy is. If you ask her to block them or if you try to set boundaries in any way, they make a million excuses about why they can't block the guy and they call you insecure
 
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