its not even that....
any woman will have men shooting their shots in her texts and DMs...yes...your woman too....and sometimes she might entertain them....she's human....
no not my girl

like she's an OBJECT of their idealism instead of a HUMAN BEING with biology like everyone else
idk what world these nikkas live in

am I going to be constantly checking a woman's phone over and over?
no there is nothing I can do if she wants to cheat or wants to sneak and never make me find out
But it's not good to be completely naïve either or be that girl's idiot like my girl is some abstract idea of idealism instead of a human being I have compatibility with like everyone else
Of course I'm making sure I'm not getting duped just in case the longer it goes on the worse the betrayal will feel when you find out so if it means going through a phone, keylogger, etc. so be it idgaf
Which means she isn't immune to behavior that will hurt me like anyone else's girl
They just want to be that nikka whose girl doesn't do that to them so they can run and tell other men you just haven't found a good girl like my girl
