Woman ask why dont men go through they girls phone

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You're taking one sentence and trivilising what I said. This isn't a women thing. I already said that I trust her with a lot of shyt.

This is a human nature thing. I simply don't trust that anybody outside of my family will ever truly have my best interest at heart. Any relationship or friendship is predicated (to a degree) on some level of self-interest.

A relationship/friendship is good when both parties are getting what they want but as soon as one party no longer feels fulfilled in the relationship (for whatever reason) they are liable to have their head turned and go astray. Now some people have the decency to let you know about it but others simply don't. You'll only find out they were unhappy after the cheating has happened.

Sometimes it has nothing to do with your partner though and you just cheat because, "fukk it, why not? She'll never find out anyway. :manny:"


My point is, you play a dangerous game when you assume a person outside your immediate family will never ever fukk you over. Either cause they feel justified in doing so or maybe just cause they feel they can.

I agree with this but you also play a dangerous game thinking family won’t fukk you over :francis:
 

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Every woman, indeed will cheat if the attention and opportunity is there. The biggest thing is opportunity.

Most women, especially the flirts and dikk teasers, avoid the final step by limiting the opportunity. If you've ever read girls fb posts every now and then you'll see "I'm easy to talk too and flirt with...it's the actual linking up you'll fail at".

That is the challenge for a man. Can you create that OPPORTUNITY.

Examples of opportunity are things like does she work and men have access to her. Does she have a ladies time out. Does she stay at home while the man at work and children at school. Does she have work trips that take her outta town.

If your woman fall up any of those categories and is appealing, someone will eventually tap that ass. Unless she already just doest like sex any way.

All a man needs is sufficient time to talk to her, listen to her, impress his personality on her, get her curious, and then get the opportunity. And the deal is done.

Bro... just let them live...

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Every woman, indeed will cheat if the attention and opportunity is there. The biggest thing is opportunity.

Most women, especially the flirts and dikk teasers, avoid the final step by limiting the opportunity. If you've ever read girls fb posts every now and then you'll see "I'm easy to talk too and flirt with...it's the actual linking up you'll fail at".

That is the challenge for a man. Can you create that OPPORTUNITY.

Examples of opportunity are things like does she work and men have access to her. Does she have a ladies time out. Does she stay at home while the man at work and children at school. Does she have work trips that take her outta town.

If your woman fall up any of those categories and is appealing, someone will eventually tap that ass. Unless she already just doest like sex any way.

All a man needs is sufficient time to talk to her, listen to her, impress his personality on her, get her curious, and then get the opportunity. And the deal is done.
let them remain naïve
ignorance is bliss
 

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Ummm, it's more than just a 'look'. It's the way they carry themselves in everyday situations and through mundane communication that makes it apparent. At least that's how it's worked for me.

Men aren't 'dumb as fukk'. Most of you just throw logic and reason to the wind when you see a phat ass/pair of titties and most women know this instinctually, use it to their advantage, and y'all keep falling for it.......but the guys who DON'T are 'gullible'?????

:mindblown:

Yo... Where the fukk are all the women on this forum...
Maybe if you hard it from their mouths, it'll hit harder ...

But brother your sitting here telling me that you don't check on what your lady is doing and who she is communicating with....

My guy, any female that has your best interest at heart will tell you... That's dumb and gullible.

But hold up.... I can't remember if it was you or not ...
Did you say you've been cheated on before...
How do you know that. How did u find out
 

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But brother your sitting here telling me that you don't check on what your lady is doing and who she is communicating with....

Didn't have to as she was trustworthy.
My guy, any female that has your best interest at heart will tell you... That's dumb and gullible.

Any female that has your best interest at heart won't be sneaking around behind your back in the first place. Hooking-up with phat-ass skeezers is 'dumb and vulnerable'.
But hold up.... I can't remember if it was you or not ...
Did you say you've been cheated on before...

Not me, and you can't cheat on someone you aren't married to or have a mutually-agreed exclusive relationship with.​
 

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When I was single, my phone was always turned off or not around when I was messing with different broads.

If they wanted to look in my phone without me knowing, they'd have to turn it on AND know the pattern/password. Of course they get suspicious but I'm like "why didn't you just ask for my phone up front?"

Besides....I had a fake calculator app. Hit a few buttons (+-/× 1234) and it led to a text app with a different phone number. Go through my phone all day and wouldn't see shyt lmao.
Breh!! I had the same type a app called a hidden place. Every call and text from certain chicks went there. The good old days lol
 

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Yo... Where the fukk are all the women on this forum...
Maybe if you hard it from their mouths, it'll hit harder ...

But brother your sitting here telling me that you don't check on what your lady is doing and who she is communicating with....

My guy, any female that has your best interest at heart will tell you... That's dumb and gullible.

But hold up.... I can't remember if it was you or not ...
Did you say you've been cheated on before...
How do you know that. How did u find out

Breh I agree with what you, @Deep_Black_Conscious , @TRUEST and other brehs are saying and I have looked thru phones myself when I was in my 20s.

But I do agree that it’s pointless. She can be creeping and u find 0 evidence. She can be innocent and u find something that looks like something it ain’t. I agree it’s better to just let her go if she even make u feel like you got look thru her stuff.
 
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