Woman dont take responsibility for anything

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This is something ive come learn in my short time alive.

From interactions and observations from my mother, cousins, girlfriend and friends. Its something that society teaches them that doesnt prepare them for reality. Got a couple examples

My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in :snoop:. Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed. Get a call a while later her car is overheating shes on the side of the highway. Asked if she has antifreeze "nope".:what: Now she ask me to get some and bring it. Her phone is dying she cant give me a exact location so i gotta hurry. Her mom calls me and is like why didnt i bring antifreeze to her in the morning when she first mentioned it. She was trying to blame me :gucci:. Found her put in the antifreeze and she repeated the claim that i shouldve bought the antifreeze or handled it from the jump. I was at work in and out of meetings. Told her not to drive, take it to a shop, get antifreeze, she did none of those things yet her and her mom blamed me.

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Now that you know your girl is like this, what are you gonna do about it?

This ain't something that she going to improve on her own. (see her momma)

So either drill it into her head that the behavior is unacceptable and that she needs to change, accept that this is her flaw and deal with it, or fire her.

Me, I'd fire her cuz she displayed repeated bad judgement, unwillingness to listen to sound instruction, unwillingness to act when given a plan of action, willingness to put herself at danger over pride/being stubborn, and blamed you on top of it.

But we know you're going to forgive her and let it go. Tag me in the next thread when her car catches fire.
 

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I feel as if its not just limited to her just female nature in general.and how we as a society coddle woman.

Another example

My cousin went to a house party got sloppy drunk. She passed out, chipped her tooth and woke up in the ER. When she woke up she said she only drank that much because men kept giving her drinks. The nurses were agreed with her and were like its not her fault she drank to that level:stopitslime:. Lol if roles were reversed id get no sympathy.
 

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Your girl is a bird and so is her mom.
Your mistake was treating an adult like a child.

Shoulda let her learn the hardway


My dad would always tell my sister that if she didn't want to learn how to take care of a car, she should learn how to walk and never drive one
 
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OP this sounds like an interaction between your teenage daughter and the mom in this case would be a BM you have problems with......
 
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