Woman dont take responsibility for anything

[Steel]

DUDE! You in Atlanta?

I think i just ran into your girl. I was at a gas station and needed change so i bought a bottled water and this skinny little brawd with a fatty walked in. She grabbed the bottle of anti-freeze and was asking the cashier if that's the only one they had available because she thought it was expensive. When she realized they didnt have any others I stepped in and tried to tell her she doesnt have to put anti freeze she can put in some water until she gets to a shop.

She said it was her brother's car , tho
Anyway the chick was okay looking, skinny like fit leaning towards skinny with braces in her teeth. If thats your chick then it aint her fault. Me, this white dude and another brother were looking at the car and we told her she can wait for a minute then start the car and put some water in it and if she dont have $15 for a botle of anti-freeze. We told her to monitor the temp guage as she drives tho. She said she was only going another mile or so.

Nah fam Fl.

 

[LoStranger]

This is something ive come learn in my short time alive.

From interactions and observations from my mother, cousins, girlfriend and friends. Its something that society teaches them that doesnt prepare them for reality. Got a couple examples

My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in . Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed. Get a call a while later her car is overheating shes on the side of the highway. Asked if she has antifreeze "nope". Now she ask me to get some and bring it. Her phone is dying she cant give me a exact location so i gotta hurry. Her mom calls me and is like why didnt i bring antifreeze to her in the morning when she first mentioned it. She was trying to blame me . Found her put in the antifreeze and she repeated the claim that i shouldve bought the antifreeze or handled it from the jump. I was at work in and out of meetings. Told her not to drive, take it to a shop, get antifreeze, she did none of those things yet her and her mom blamed me.

Don't worry fam 90% of women are like this its embedded in their DNA. I remember as a child my cousin told my nan the milk was off. My nan responded saying he must be making it up because she had brought some only a few days ago (she actually hadn't.) My cousin then poured it out infront of her to reveal thick gone off milk chunks. My cousin then responded "see," my nan then replied "You must of left it behind the fridge then." Me and my cousin were like:

 

[intruder]

Nah fam Fl.

Oh ok. Would have been funny if that was the same person

Either way women are notorious for mistreating cars, period. That's just what they do. My sister put Diesel fuel in a regular gasoline powered car......TWICE within a year. It took the mechanic weeks to figure out the problem. Once they figured it out and fixed it. Gave her back the car. What does she do about 8 months later? Diesel again!
Nuff said

 

[Elle Seven]

I'm a woman and just wanted to say it's not really fair to generalize us all like this. What you describe is nothing typical of a female exclusively but just any person who was raised without a sense of personal responsibility.

For example, do you sincerely think what you're describing would be typical of a woman who is a high-ranking military official who is in charge of otherd or even a young girl being raised on a farm where she has to pull her own weight in order to help her family?

If it makes you feel better, the average person doesn't take 100% accountability for his thoughts, speech, beliefs and actions without ever offering ANY excuses or deferences.

That said, the young lady you are talking about is a reflection of this, but I would bet a million bucks she learned it from her mother.

 

[StayOffMe]

Nah we had a convo abt it and made it clear she was in the wrong. She kept making excuses and had the nerve to say her father and brothers never let their woman deal with vehicle problems. Shes a book smart woman. Ivy league educated but has some weird warped gender role notions.

Okay, even then, why did she wait until the issue became imminent? I am assuming that you do not drive HER car...do you normally have routine maintenance done on Her vehicle? If not, why now? If so, is it upon her letting you know that there is an issue?

 

[25YOUTHS!!]

Naw breh don't put that on all women.
It's fukkin $7 anti-freeze available at any corner store. I've legit walked women thru changing a tire, jumping their car etc thru the phone.
Sounds like they don't respect your tone breh.
Instead of being embarrassed that what you said would happen....happened, they have the audacity and are comfortable enough to try to flip it all on you.
Good luck breh

 

[street heat]

OP, dont you know a REAL MAN wouldve handled that for his woman himself ?

 

[Jay Kast]

I don't necessarily think this was a situation of her not being responsible or unaccountable but mostly her being afraid. A lot of women are when it comes to cars and sometimes may need their hand held in that scenario.

There is two situations that you could be in.

1. Your woman doesn't accept responsibility for her actions in general.

2. Your girl is looking to you to fall into traditional gender specific roles in the relationship.

If that's your girl, you should be handling things like that ONLY if she's holding up her end of the bargain (cooking, cleaning, etc.). My girl is willing to put her antifreeze, go get her oil changed - BUT I handle it because she does my laundry, cleans the house and cooks. In that sense, it's the least I could do. Teamwork makes the dream work.

If it's number 1? Drop her, it's not worth it.

 

[the bossman]

Imagine the scenarios this dude will be stuck in once they have a child together.

 

[FreshFromATL]

This is something ive come learn in my short time alive.

From interactions and observations from my mother, cousins, girlfriend and friends. Its something that society teaches them that doesnt prepare them for reality. Got a couple examples

My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in . Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed. Get a call a while later her car is overheating shes on the side of the highway. Asked if she has antifreeze "nope". Now she ask me to get some and bring it. Her phone is dying she cant give me a exact location so i gotta hurry. Her mom calls me and is like why didnt i bring antifreeze to her in the morning when she first mentioned it. She was trying to blame me . Found her put in the antifreeze and she repeated the claim that i shouldve bought the antifreeze or handled it from the jump. I was at work in and out of meetings. Told her not to drive, take it to a shop, get antifreeze, she did none of those things yet her and her mom blamed me.

These chicks will raise a nikka blood pressure with that stupid shyt

 

[Steel]

Okay, even then, why did she wait until the issue became imminent? I am assuming that you do not drive HER car...do you normally have routine maintenance done on Her vehicle? If not, why now? If so, is it upon her letting you know that there is an issue?

Yea ive helped change tire, change oil even walked her through insurance issue after accident. She was scared to touch anything near the engine but i gave her options because my hands were tied while i was at work. Bottom line we have this underlying issue where she believes she isnt responsible for certain things because shes female. Other than that we have a good relationship.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

She knew you were going to put the antifreeze in her car...and you did.

She knew her side was gonna be taken no matter what...and it was.

Roof Roof! Good boy!

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

As a woman, I should say that you cannot attribute these claims to all women.

Your girl is just stupid.

I heard somewhere, "if you want to see how a woman turns out, look at her mom".

 

[Dwolf]

You guys are on a roll today.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Now that you know your girl is like this, what are you gonna do about it?

This ain't something that she going to improve on her own. (see her momma)

So either drill it into her head that the behavior is unacceptable and that she needs to change, accept that this is her flaw and deal with it, or fire her.

Me, I'd fire her cuz she displayed repeated bad judgement, unwillingness to listen to sound instruction, unwillingness to act when given a plan of action, willingness to put herself at danger over pride/being stubborn, and blamed you on top of it.

But we know you're going to forgive her and let it go. Tag me in the next thread when her car catches fire.

Breh everytime I hear these dudes complaining about their girl's behavior....I'm here thinking "why are you consistently putting it up with her bullshyt again? "