This is something ive come learn in my short time alive.
From interactions and observations from my mother, cousins, girlfriend and friends. Its something that society teaches them that doesnt prepare them for reality. Got a couple examples
My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in. Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed. Get a call a while later her car is overheating shes on the side of the highway. Asked if she has antifreeze "nope".
Now she ask me to get some and bring it. Her phone is dying she cant give me a exact location so i gotta hurry. Her mom calls me and is like why didnt i bring antifreeze to her in the morning when she first mentioned it. She was trying to blame me
. Found her put in the antifreeze and she repeated the claim that i shouldve bought the antifreeze or handled it from the jump. I was at work in and out of meetings. Told her not to drive, take it to a shop, get antifreeze, she did none of those things yet her and her mom blamed me.
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Well op you should of stopped whatever you were doing bought , drove to her & put the antifreeze in .it's your fault for not not checking her fluids ever 5 monthsThis is something ive come learn in my short time alive.
From interactions and observations from my mother, cousins, girlfriend and friends. Its something that society teaches them that doesnt prepare them for reality. Got a couple examples
My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in. Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed. Get a call a while later her car is overheating shes on the side of the highway. Asked if she has antifreeze "nope".
Now she ask me to get some and bring it. Her phone is dying she cant give me a exact location so i gotta hurry. Her mom calls me and is like why didnt i bring antifreeze to her in the morning when she first mentioned it. She was trying to blame me
. Found her put in the antifreeze and she repeated the claim that i shouldve bought the antifreeze or handled it from the jump. I was at work in and out of meetings. Told her not to drive, take it to a shop, get antifreeze, she did none of those things yet her and her mom blamed me.
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& when she runs out of gas because you failed to check it will be your faultThe sad part of this whole ordeal is you venting to single ass strangers and not venting to the true culprit on why you feel this way
Which Ivy?Nah we had a convo abt it and made it clear she was in the wrong. She kept making excuses and had the nerve to say her father and brothers never let their woman deal with vehicle problems. Shes a book smart woman. Ivy league educated but has some weird warped gender role notions.

DUDE! You in Atlanta?My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in. Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed.

Well my nikka..... Once you stop looking at women as your equals, you won't get upset about how they act and how society treats them.
We're men.... Embrace your manhood.
