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This is something ive come learn in my short time alive.

From interactions and observations from my mother, cousins, girlfriend and friends. Its something that society teaches them that doesnt prepare them for reality. Got a couple examples

My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in :snoop:. Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed. Get a call a while later her car is overheating shes on the side of the highway. Asked if she has antifreeze "nope".:what: Now she ask me to get some and bring it. Her phone is dying she cant give me a exact location so i gotta hurry. Her mom calls me and is like why didnt i bring antifreeze to her in the morning when she first mentioned it. She was trying to blame me :gucci:. Found her put in the antifreeze and she repeated the claim that i shouldve bought the antifreeze or handled it from the jump. I was at work in and out of meetings. Told her not to drive, take it to a shop, get antifreeze, she did none of those things yet her and her mom blamed me.

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The sad part of this whole ordeal is you venting to single ass strangers and not venting to the true culprit on why you feel this way
 

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Nah that is just your girl don't blame all women for stupid mistake you made by going out with her. Any normal person with common sense knows immediately you told them that they will hurry up and buy it so it doesn't cause trouble later. You have been babying her too much
 
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Poor you. Seems like her mom is a c*nt. That should have been your clue.

If your girl's mom is a bytch, you better run cuz that's the same bytch that's been raising your girl and is going to be all up in her ear about you.
 

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This is something ive come learn in my short time alive.

From interactions and observations from my mother, cousins, girlfriend and friends. Its something that society teaches them that doesnt prepare them for reality. Got a couple examples

My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in :snoop:. Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed. Get a call a while later her car is overheating shes on the side of the highway. Asked if she has antifreeze "nope".:what: Now she ask me to get some and bring it. Her phone is dying she cant give me a exact location so i gotta hurry. Her mom calls me and is like why didnt i bring antifreeze to her in the morning when she first mentioned it. She was trying to blame me :gucci:. Found her put in the antifreeze and she repeated the claim that i shouldve bought the antifreeze or handled it from the jump. I was at work in and out of meetings. Told her not to drive, take it to a shop, get antifreeze, she did none of those things yet her and her mom blamed me.

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Well op you should of stopped whatever you were doing bought , drove to her & put the antifreeze in .it's your fault for not not checking her fluids ever 5 months :yeshrug::mjcry: & when she runs out of gas because you failed to check it will be your fault
 
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I don't necessarily think this was a situation of her not being responsible or unaccountable but mostly her being afraid. A lot of women are when it comes to cars and sometimes may need their hand held in that scenario.

I used to manage an auto shop right out of college for a couple years and it was mostly the women and equally the elderly coming in after driving their cars through hell. A lot of times they were big fixes that started off small and could've been cheaper if they had just brought it in right away or checked it out themselves.

I tell my friends it's absolutely unacceptable that they don't know certain basics about their car and make it a point to give them tips and point some things out about their car so they aren't completely clueless or raked over the coals for repairs. I was never a mechanic but being a manager for a shop forced me to learn a lot more than I may have but I also have always been interested in cars. Unfortunately, a lot of women just aren't, and it's sad. However, I think every man should take time to show the women they love a few things about their vehicle.
 

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The sad part of this whole ordeal is you venting to single ass strangers and not venting to the true culprit on why you feel this way

Nah we had a convo abt it and made it clear she was in the wrong. She kept making excuses and had the nerve to say her father and brothers never let their woman deal with vehicle problems. Shes a book smart woman. Ivy league educated but has some weird warped gender role notions.
 

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Nah we had a convo abt it and made it clear she was in the wrong. She kept making excuses and had the nerve to say her father and brothers never let their woman deal with vehicle problems. Shes a book smart woman. Ivy league educated but has some weird warped gender role notions.
Which Ivy?

I'm thinking Dartmouth. Couldn't have been a Penn chick. :dame:
 

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My girl called me and told me her car was beeping. I did some research found out it was because she was low on antifreeze. I told her to BUY some at a gas station and too keep an eye on the indicator. She called me said it was Hot. I asked agin did u buy antifreeze? She says no she'll get some on her lunch break. I told her not to drive it because it will overheat. She can put water in the radiator until it she takes it to a shop or gets antifreeze. Shes scared doesnt want to put water in :snoop:. Her lunch break comes and goes. Still no antifreeze. I told her first thing to do is get antifreeze as soon as she leaves work because most shops closed.
DUDE! You in Atlanta?

I think i just ran into your girl. I was at a gas station and needed change so i bought a bottled water and this skinny little brawd with a fatty walked in. She grabbed the bottle of anti-freeze and was asking the cashier if that's the only one they had available because she thought it was expensive. When she realized they didnt have any others I stepped in and tried to tell her she doesnt have to put anti freeze she can put in some water until she gets to a shop.

She said it was her brother's car , tho :jbhmm:
Anyway the chick was okay looking, skinny like fit leaning towards skinny with braces in her teeth. If thats your chick then it aint her fault. Me, this white dude and another brother were looking at the car and we told her she can wait for a minute then start the car and put some water in it and if she dont have $15 for a bottlle of anti-freeze. Definitely a leaks/broken hose somehwere because i see splashes of anti-freeze under the hood. We told her to monitor the temp guage as she drives tho. She said she was only going another mile or so. This was like... 3 hours ago?
 
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