Woman dont take responsibility for anything

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Shes one of the good ones guys :whoa: but has weird thoughts about gender roles because of her pops. From what ive seen pops has played :cape:for the family. Which i dont think is a bad thing but has led to unrealistic expectations.

And this is the problem. My dad (and mom) let me figure it out. He allowed me to use common sense and problem solving skills that he knew I’d need in life. Once he realized I couldn’t figure it out, then he’d step in.

I grew up a spoiled only child but my parents knew that the outside world would not treat me the same. Sorry to tell you this but she’s been conditioned not to figure shyt out and wait for someone to save her. From that little story I’d bet she has no survival skills at all.
 

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Wow at this thread....y'all caping hard.... u actually got fools in here saying the op is a simple ....saying HE should've been the one to keep up on the reg maintenance....etc.....missing the whole point.
 

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I don’t kno if anyone said it but...
OP, you should have brought her the antifreeze and filled it up the first chance you got. IJS

You know your girl and she prob would’ve fukked herself or sum thing else up.
Her shyt shouldn’t have been low in the first place, if she doesn’t have any leaks. You can smell that shyt before it gets to that point.

With that out the way...
I kinda agree with your thread title. You just gave a bad example. I think her lack of owning up to shyt has just built up, and now the smallest things are clouding your judgement.
 

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Most I would say yeah, very rarely will a woman be accountable for her actions


She cheats it's because you didn't do so and so

She dumps you it's because you didn't do so and so

She gets fired it's because her boss didn't like her and he did so and so
The last one so real
Will come home bytching every day and you gotta hear that shyt
 
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OP story hits home I’m in a similar situation as we speak. I say girls do take responsibility but they do not correct the behavior and learn from the mistakes.

My ex girl crashed my whip TWICE since July. First time she crashed it and said she got in a little accident and the car is fine. I asked if she filled out a report and she said nope. :stopitslime: Then come to find out my door is F U C K E D U P. I didn’t even try to claim insurance I just took the L and kept it moving. 3 weeks ago she gets in ANOTHER accident :gucci: Once again she hit me with the ‘it’s just a little fender bender :mjgrin:‘ I don’t even check right away this time and smoke a chill out blunt so I don’t Ike this woman. Take my dog out and a nikkas whole fender is GONE. Mirror dangling. All that :mindblown: and once again no police report :mindblown:

Turns out for the better because I able to finesse the insurance company to make it seem like both accidents happened at once :mjgrin:

Moral of the story is hoes are dumb as shyt and do not listen

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Shyt like this makes me glad im single at the moment. With how stressful my job is...I cant just get off at any drop of a dime. Her man did provide her with advice and instruction....u know being the leader and she didn't follow.
 

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Yea ive helped change tire, change oil even walked her through insurance issue after accident. She was scared to touch anything near the engine but i gave her options because my hands were tied while i was at work. Bottom line we have this underlying issue where she believes she isnt responsible for certain things because shes female. Other than that we have a good relationship.
I agree, only trying to figure out whether you take care of routine issues, like oil changes and such or does she take her car to get serviced.

Idk, but good luck.
 
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You guys sure love to generalize all women but will never own up to your own mistakes. :skip:
Our "mistakes" have a million dollar "black men need to do better" book, talk show, youtube channel, instagram page, conference, preaching topic INDUSTRY.
So spare me the "you generalize but we don't" It's an absolute lie.
The problem is: Women aren't used to criticism...because of nikkas trying to save y'all feelings.
It's like rejecting a woman...y'all go nuclear haywire because you're not used to it.
There's a BLACK MEN AIN'T shyt hustle going on...
Where's the equivalent million dollar industry? Where are the equivalent best seller books? Where's the equivalent VSB article written for women by men...once again?
If you can't find these things (you won't) what does that mean?
So...in cases of y'all talking about being improperly touched, or feeling threatened by a man..if somebody hops in saying "y'all generalizing all men"
what do women do? Call him a rapist. Man raped nobody.
can't take it...don't dish it....can't adult...don't pretend to be one...
 

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All this could’ve been avoided if u just had said I don’t know how to fix ur car :russ::russ::russ::russ:




But like mentioned in this thread she knew u was going fix the shyt for her
 
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