Woman explains why she rejected Nuclear Physicist

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Y'all reading too deeply into this lol.

I'm a "square" breh. I work in STEM. I make great money. I get plenty of women from all races, but have also been rejected by black women for my "squareness." For a long time I fell into the trap of thinking, "woe is me, they just want hood nikkas." And while that's true, it's deeper than that.

I came to realize that, these birds are rejecting me not because they think I'm inadequate, but because they think they are. Humans are a lot more self aware than any of us give credit for. A bytch with no life skills who does nothing but show ass on IG deep down understands that she simply cannot keep up with an intelligent, scholarly brother in conversation and really can't bring anything to the table for him. So she rejects him, before he can reject her or worse, smashes and gets tired of her because she's just a bird. A lot of rejection stems from projection.

These type of women stick with hood nikkas not because they genuinely find them more attractive/masculine but because there's a level of comfort. Intelligent, money making brehs intimidate women like her. Women don't like when a dude says something and it goes over their head because they're too slow to grasp it. When he brings up a niche topic or a current world event and they can't chime in because the only current events they keep up with are from the Shaderoom's Ig. When she feels like she's walking on eggshells everytime she speaks because she's afraid she's gonna say something dumb as fukk. When her impulsive decision making is countered by rationality (eg: let's not blow 5000 on bottles tonight, we're saving for our vacation coming up.)

Hood nikkas are low vibrational nikkas so they synergize well with low vibrational women. They don't gotta change themselves for them. They don't feel intimidated or out of place around them. That's literally all it is.

Sit there and really try to imagine someone like Cardi B dating an astrophysicist. :mjlol: She went with Offset because that motherfukka the male version of her.
 

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At the end of the day, breh through out nuclear physicist because he figured the host and the girl wouldn't know what it was and would be amazed by such a complex position. But it backfired. They had no idea what it was nor did she care, and was more focused on personality which he failed to consider.

Dude is a con artist. A grifter. He probably has book smarts, but doesn't know how to apply it. He's also lacking in the social skills department. He's probably use to getting by sounding smart. A jack of all trades, master of none type of guy.
A lot of assumptions about this young black man breh
 

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When she feels like she's walking on eggshells everytime she speaks because she's afraid she's gonna say something dumb as fukk.

I've heard this before.

wow...... :dead:


excellent analysis.

Hood nikkas are low vibrational nikkas so they synergize well with low vibrational women. They don't gotta change themselves for them. They don't feel intimidated or out of place around them. That's literally all it is.

Correct.
 

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Men got to understand, most women of a certain class don’t care about intelligence. They care about going on trips, what they friends/family think, and only how much money it takes to look like a “boss” / “balling, food, celebrities, etc.
Talk to them about shyt like that and they’ll talk all day.

They should’ve never even had a conversation together. Not going to have any intelligent conversation about physics, the universe, creating things, building something, etc.

So I personally think they both shouldn’t care. He should find someone around his interests and she most likely will because hers are most likely typical compared to his

His just most likely won’t look, talk, or act like her. :yeshrug:


No women do care about intelligence, you just need the confidence & aggressiveness to match it. Tupac is a business suit is real.
 
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:salute:to your brother.

MITs Lincoln Lab aka artificial intelligence center is amazing. My cuzzo is picking between Morehouse and Harvard now. Quiet as kept North Eastern has a great artificial intelligence post undergraduate program . Having been on their campus I know what I have to aim for .


It's nothing wrong with being a nerd. It's sick we are the only group who says it's bad being a nerd.

Many of these he's a nerd ass chicks and dudes be crying about the same nerds sitting in a seat of power later on.

My other relative who is a now retired judge circa 2010 gave a younger dude some long life changing life wasted yrs cause the kid's Pops clowned him some yrs back. :demonic:. He was on demon time B4 it was culture popular .

i would go to harvard. definitely nothing wrong with being a nerd. i am a nerd and lame myself. i'm still here :yeshrug: I just gotta know my lane.
 

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Y'all reading too deeply into this lol.

I'm a "square" breh. I work in STEM. I make great money. I get plenty of women from all races, but have also been rejected by black women for my "squareness." For a long time I fell into the trap of thinking, "woe is me, they just want hood nikkas." And while that's true, it's deeper than that.

I came to realize that, these birds are rejecting me not because they think I'm inadequate, but because they think they are. Humans are a lot more self aware than any of us give credit for. A bytch with no life skills who does nothing but show ass on IG deep down understands that she simply cannot keep up with an intelligent, scholarly brother in conversation and really can't bring anything to the table for him. So she rejects him, before he can reject her or worse, smashes and gets tired of her because she's just a bird. A lot of rejection stems from projection.

These type of women stick with hood nikkas not because they genuinely find them more attractive/masculine but because there's a level of comfort. Intelligent, money making brehs intimidate women like her. Women don't like when a dude says something and it goes over their head because they're too slow to grasp it. When he brings up a niche topic or a current world event and they can't chime in because the only current events they keep up with are from the Shaderoom's Ig. When she feels like she's walking on eggshells everytime she speaks because she's afraid she's gonna say something dumb as fukk. When her impulsive decision making is countered by rationality (eg: let's not blow 5000 on bottles tonight, we're saving for our vacation coming up.)

Hood nikkas are low vibrational nikkas so they synergize well with low vibrational women. They don't gotta change themselves for them. They don't feel intimidated or out of place around them. That's literally all it is.

Sit there and really try to imagine someone like Cardi B dating an astrophysicist. :mjlol: She went with Offset because that motherfukka the male version of her.
Yup
I owe you a rep.
 

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Y'all reading too deeply into this lol.

I'm a "square" breh. I work in STEM. I make great money. I get plenty of women from all races, but have also been rejected by black women for my "squareness." For a long time I fell into the trap of thinking, "woe is me, they just want hood nikkas." And while that's true, it's deeper than that.

I came to realize that, these birds are rejecting me not because they think I'm inadequate, but because they think they are. Humans are a lot more self aware than any of us give credit for. A bytch with no life skills who does nothing but show ass on IG deep down understands that she simply cannot keep up with an intelligent, scholarly brother in conversation and really can't bring anything to the table for him. So she rejects him, before he can reject her or worse, smashes and gets tired of her because she's just a bird. A lot of rejection stems from projection.

These type of women stick with hood nikkas not because they genuinely find them more attractive/masculine but because there's a level of comfort. Intelligent, money making brehs intimidate women like her. Women don't like when a dude says something and it goes over their head because they're too slow to grasp it. When he brings up a niche topic or a current world event and they can't chime in because the only current events they keep up with are from the Shaderoom's Ig. When she feels like she's walking on eggshells everytime she speaks because she's afraid she's gonna say something dumb as fukk. When her impulsive decision making is countered by rationality (eg: let's not blow 5000 on bottles tonight, we're saving for our vacation coming up.)

Hood nikkas are low vibrational nikkas so they synergize well with low vibrational women. They don't gotta change themselves for them. They don't feel intimidated or out of place around them. That's literally all it is.

Sit there and really try to imagine someone like Cardi B dating an astrophysicist. :mjlol: She went with Offset because that motherfukka the male version of her.
Building on this, I think a larger question we need to ask is why such a disproportionate amount of attractive, fukkable black women seem to be low vibrational.

So often you hear "you're a black nerdy guy, go for a black nerdy female." Which sounds perfect on paper except, every black nerdy man can tell you from experience the overwhelming majority of real black nerdy women are chopped.

Something about our culture seems to draw our most attractive women to low-vibrational behavior and activities beginning in their adolescence. You can look at whites, asians, and even to some extent hispanics and find baddies that fit literally every archetype. I mean literally half the time I'm on the coli I'm at my STEM job's office, sitting across from loads of attractive ass white and asian women who know how to code and like men who code too. This shyt seems to be extremely rare bordering on absent in our community and the question is "why." :yeshrug:
 

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Yes - when there are things available like government assistance, healthcare, abortion, etc etc etc

Remove these things and women arent gonna be too impressed with your charm and your fresh sneakers.

This is a luxury of living in a comfortable and blessed environment.
:mjlol:
I’m talking about sexual attraction/or first impression

..accomplishments is not a factor


And as for marriage, over half of marriage couples are on dual income .
^^this
 
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Y'all reading too deeply into this lol.

I'm a "square" breh. I work in STEM. I make great money. I get plenty of women from all races, but have also been rejected by black women for my "squareness." For a long time I fell into the trap of thinking, "woe is me, they just want hood nikkas." And while that's true, it's deeper than that.

I came to realize that, these birds are rejecting me not because they think I'm inadequate, but because they think they are. Humans are a lot more self aware than any of us give credit for. A bytch with no life skills who does nothing but show ass on IG deep down understands that she simply cannot keep up with an intelligent, scholarly brother in conversation and really can't bring anything to the table for him. So she rejects him, before he can reject her or worse, smashes and gets tired of her because she's just a bird. A lot of rejection stems from projection.

These type of women stick with hood nikkas not because they genuinely find them more attractive/masculine but because there's a level of comfort. Intelligent, money making brehs intimidate women like her. Women don't like when a dude says something and it goes over their head because they're too slow to grasp it. When he brings up a niche topic or a current world event and they can't chime in because the only current events they keep up with are from the Shaderoom's Ig. When she feels like she's walking on eggshells everytime she speaks because she's afraid she's gonna say something dumb as fukk. When her impulsive decision making is countered by rationality (eg: let's not blow 5000 on bottles tonight, we're saving for our vacation coming up.)

Hood nikkas are low vibrational nikkas so they synergize well with low vibrational women. They don't gotta change themselves for them. They don't feel intimidated or out of place around them. That's literally all it is.

Sit there and really try to imagine someone like Cardi B dating an astrophysicist. :mjlol: She went with Offset because that motherfukka the male version of her.
Bingo
 

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she thought they were more relatable and already said she is not focused on dude's career so idk why you bring up his career lol. but i didn't watch the other guys so idk. but different people like different things. she is in ATL though so there is all types of black folk here. even cute nerds that have dope personalities lol. she will be fine

Which is why black women stay losing with high value men
 

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I’m not offended in responding to the BS you’re talking about. You said she is in a great career path, her IG was already posted here she dances for the Hawks that’s not a great career path.

“She said she does well” yeah just like the other nikka said he cleans credit and has 5 cars :mjlol:
Oh well she definitely wasn’t looking for no military nikka thats a Nuke…

She looking for a ball player or some kind of “boss”… especially in atlanta. Not surprising
 

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Y'all reading too deeply into this lol.

I'm a "square" breh. I work in STEM. I make great money. I get plenty of women from all races, but have also been rejected by black women for my "squareness." For a long time I fell into the trap of thinking, "woe is me, they just want hood nikkas." And while that's true, it's deeper than that.

I came to realize that, these birds are rejecting me not because they think I'm inadequate, but because they think they are. Humans are a lot more self aware than any of us give credit for. A bytch with no life skills who does nothing but show ass on IG deep down understands that she simply cannot keep up with an intelligent, scholarly brother in conversation and really can't bring anything to the table for him. So she rejects him, before he can reject her or worse, smashes and gets tired of her because she's just a bird. A lot of rejection stems from projection.

These type of women stick with hood nikkas not because they genuinely find them more attractive/masculine but because there's a level of comfort. Intelligent, money making brehs intimidate women like her. Women don't like when a dude says something and it goes over their head because they're too slow to grasp it. When he brings up a niche topic or a current world event and they can't chime in because the only current events they keep up with are from the Shaderoom's Ig. When she feels like she's walking on eggshells everytime she speaks because she's afraid she's gonna say something dumb as fukk. When her impulsive decision making is countered by rationality (eg: let's not blow 5000 on bottles tonight, we're saving for our vacation coming up.)

Hood nikkas are low vibrational nikkas so they synergize well with low vibrational women. They don't gotta change themselves for them. They don't feel intimidated or out of place around them. That's literally all it is.

Sit there and really try to imagine someone like Cardi B dating an astrophysicist. :mjlol: She went with Offset because that motherfukka the male version of her.

I wish there was more of a study on this. :ohhh: I've heard the same thing several times, but I don't know
 

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The reality is that nobody is forced to like anything and she's free to 'like what she wants'. This also needs to apply to those 'c00nta kintes' as well. When these 'cornball brothas' end up with white or asian women, they need to be given the freedom to 'like who they want', but we all know they will be given the 'sellout' or 'c00n title.

This is a clear example that dispels this constant notion of 'good black men are just c00ns who only go after white women.' Men usually end up dealing with whoever likes them. Let's be real here as well. Just hearing how dude talks and his 'swagger', it's clear as day he won't be found sexy by a lot of black women around him. He's one of those nerdy dudes that some white, asian or indian nerdy girl will be attracted to. Before he blew up with Creed and got his workout on, I'm sure that's the same thing that happened to Michael Scooby Snacks Jordan. Black women might have found him cute, but his persona attracted mostly white women because 'he's too corny'. Same with RGIII. People were going on about him and those white women, but black women weren't attracted to a toy figure collecting nerd who dances like this:
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Once these women get left with 2 to 3 kids by the swagged out men they were chasing in their primes, then they expect those nerdy brothas to come in and swoop them up and play clean-up man. It's clear as day this woman is much more interested in penitentiary talk, because she asked tattoo beard man nothing but questions about the pen and nothing about how he changed his life around or anything positive. Her fascination with prison talk allowed her to entertain a long convo with tattoo beard despite him completely mispronouncing her name and mentioning that he came on for Melly and not her. She was the one that initiated the conversation and asked probing questions where as she dismissed the supposed nuclear physicist at lightning speed. If this is a speed dating show, then why spend time asking probing questions to a guy who came on and said he was there to support the host and not you?

The real issue isn't who she likes. The real issue is these same kind of women will then shift the blame and try to slander the same men they ignored in their prime for not paying them attention later on in life. These women will try to call those same kind of men gay, self-hating and a host of other names. If you gonna rock with one type in the beginning, stay with that to the end. Ciara lucked out with her Russell , but the majority of those men aren't going to wait for the woman to 'grow up' and mysteriously like their type when she's old and needs financial assistance.
Crickets will chirp to this as brehettes overlook this post
 

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Relate to nikkas with fake companies, criminal records and tatted beards brehettes.


Why are so many nikkas care though. So what if she likes street nikkas. Y’all love going back-and-forth into this goofy shyt. Don’t y’all have churches or schools or some shyt when you can be your proper mate?
 
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