They feel they dont have to compete, its actually beneath them. Most would rather knock the guy down a peg than make their intentions known. Others are in it to win it. Thats where the whole "oh they easy" or "they friendly" type shaming comments come from. The thought process you are looking for doesnt even register and would get screw face if you asked a group this in person..
It’s not that. Black households teach girls not to be forward or come off desperate, etc. White girls aren’t told that.
The Black community has a weird thing around sex and romantic relationships. A lot of people don’t have real convos with their daughters and send them out to the slaughter.
Trust. I have a cousin who grew up with a stay at home mom in a 2 parent household and she still got knocked up in college (graduated on time, too). For whatever reason her folks just
assumed she knew how to handle dating away from home since her own mom was a housewife.
Her dad asked me to talk to her, so I ended up grilling her to get some real answers and I was in shock. She started crying and I had to walk away and ask her dad if they ever taught her anything about men? Especially YOUNG men. He just kind of danced around the topic. A lot of girls get in bad situations because no one guides them to the finish line.
White and Asian girls? Their mothers get them prepped and groomed to attract the best guys they can, will force them to have an abortion if they get pregnant, and will force them to pester their current beau for marriage even if he isn’t the man they truly want.
Black families used to do these things, but haven’t in the last couple decades.