Woman explains why she rejected Nuclear Physicist

[Rozay Oro]

I still live with my mama

You ain’t no thug nikka tho

 

[Wiseborn]

I don’t think women are just procrastinating when it comes to love. The problem is that life is happening. And there’s so much more to life than relationships. And you can’t advise women to prioritize relationships in their youth because that’s an unstable investment with some really risky returns. Have you seen how crazy a lot of men are these days? As mentally broken as many men are, plenty of women do shyt the “right way” and still be divorced and tired by their 30s.

Just like a lot of men feel women are unmarriable, a lotta chicks feel men aren’t worth investing time in. That’s where this BOE mentality comes from. They might get their dikk from whoever makes em cum, but in the meantime, many are trying to invest in themselves b/c they can’t risk investing emotional, financial, mental, physical energy into a relationship and potentially deal with getting their asses beaten, getting cheated on, not getting an orgasm, or dealing with somebody who might make their lives worse than they were single.

I think men are going through a similar quandary where they feel the juice isn’t worth the squeeze for women too.

Telling people to start young isn’t necessarily the best solution because too many don’t have their heads on straight in their youth. A lotta dudes still living at home with parents and some dudes are resistant to establishing careers. Some are addicted to porn and unable to love or pair bond. All the same things a lot of men complain about in women, are things many women are recoiling from in men, especially in their youth. And in our race, it takes a minute to reach a point where you feel okay b/c we go through so much shyt. So that’s why a lotta women are just saying fukk it and trying to establish themselves before they worry about marriage and kids.

I generally agree with but don't at the same time. Women don't want to equally yoked on some Cosby Show shyt. In theory they do but really they want a dude (when they're ready to settle down) to already have everything figured out.

Women will simp all the way out for some super Handsome gang dude at the drop of a hat. Obviously most Men are alright to meh looking so yes a chick isn't really trying to settle for some dude that is the human definition of Mid.

Only problem is that most women because they get sweated so much don't realize that they're mid too. If they did then Mid people would link up and there would be no problems.

Finally as I you said chicks ain't really feeling mid tier dudes and when they age out they're gonna have to deal with the dude who are left.

I'm in Colombia and Colomian twitter is roasting Jennifer Lopez for going at Shakira posting untouched photos Jenny form the Block fell off Hard, She's lucky that Ben Affleck was waiting in the wings to simp out on her. She never seemed that into Diddy but there's no way Diddy would fukk with 50 year old JLo.

 

[skyrunner1]

I don’t think women are just procrastinating when it comes to love. The problem is that life is happening. And there’s so much more to life than relationships. And you can’t advise women to prioritize relationships in their youth because that’s an unstable investment with some really risky returns. Have you seen how crazy a lot of men are these days? As mentally broken as many men are, plenty of women do shyt the “right way” and still be divorced and tired by their 30s.

Just like a lot of men feel women are unmarriable, a lotta chicks feel men aren’t worth investing time in. That’s where this BOE mentality comes from. They might get their dikk from whoever makes em cum, but in the meantime, many are trying to invest in themselves b/c they can’t risk investing emotional, financial, mental, physical energy into a relationship and potentially deal with getting their asses beaten, getting cheated on, not getting an orgasm, or dealing with somebody who might make their lives worse than they were single.

I think men are going through a similar quandary where they feel the juice isn’t worth the squeeze for women too.

Telling people to start young isn’t necessarily the best solution because too many don’t have their heads on straight in their youth. A lotta dudes still living at home with parents and some dudes are resistant to establishing careers. Some are addicted to porn and unable to love or pair bond. All the same things a lot of men complain about in women, are things many women are recoiling from in men, especially in their youth. And in our race, it takes a minute to reach a point where you feel okay b/c we go through so much shyt. So that’s why a lotta women are just saying fukk it and trying to establish themselves before they worry about marriage and kids.

If I squint hard enough I can kinda get what you are saying but then when you slide in stuff like that last sentence its like come on, lol.. "the problem is life is happening" EXACTLY, thats why you need to be ultra clear about what you want and cant waste time, you need to be clear about your choices because what ever you choose has pros and cons and you cant have it all. I think alot of people in our community believe the BS that sold whether it be feminism or some disney BS. If a young women ask you, what age range would you recommend they prioritize their relationships? How can priority of relationship be an issue but alot of women are popping up with kids. Maybe they try to establish themselves before marriage but kids are being had early and often.

Its the gift and the curse of BW where if they take care of themselves they will still look good in later age, but that curse is it gives them false sense of security because father time comes for everyone. Biology seems to be something that people think they can PC their way out of and its just not true, when you tell people the hard facts they give you one off stories. Now I will agree things have changed because not to long ago, you could be fairly young, get job down at factory and be able to start a family fairly easily at a young age. That same 22 year old because of changes in these times cant pull that off in large numbers like grandpa was able to.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

men are pretty easy to figure out when it comes to attraction. women got it easy.

women are complex. women lie about what they really want. the media lies. men lie. no fathers or father figures to teach otherwise. only recently have women become more open about what they really are attracted to and want so it's easy to understand why people have confusion

Nah. Men claim to be easy until you get with em and realize, ya’ll got all kinds of messed up hang ups ya’ll avoid simply b/c you don’t dig into your emotions. Ya’ll hide behind that “we simple” stuff.
Meanwhile dudes will have a perfect 10 and be cheating on her with a 5, wanting to fukk something completely different. Not to mention the Madonna/slut complexes and more.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I generally agree with but don't at the same time. Women don't want to equally yoked on some Cosby Show shyt. In theory they do but really they want a dude (when they're ready to settle down) to already have everything figured out.

Women will simp all the way out for some super Handsome gang dude at the drop of a hat. Obviously most Men are alright to meh looking so yes a chick isn't really trying to settle for some dude that is the human definition of Mid.

Only problem is that most women because they get sweated so much don't realize that they're mid too. If they did then Mid people would link up and there would be no problems.

Finally as I you said chicks ain't really feeling mid tier dudes and when they age out they're gonna have to deal with the dude who are left.

I'm in Colombia and Colomian twitter is roasting Jennifer Lopez for going at Shakira posting untouched photos Jenny form the Block fell off Hard, She's lucky that Ben Affleck was waiting in the wings to simp out on her. She never seemed that into Diddy but there's no way Diddy would fukk with 50 year old JLo.

Nah that’s not true. If a woman loves that man, she’s more than willing to walk through that man’s life with him. I’ve seen it happen thousands of times. But I’ve also seen men toss their old model and wanna trade in for a new one when they get on their feet too.
Which is why a lotta women think men are a risky investment.
Plenty of men will tell you about the one they let get away and many more won’t tell you how they fumbled the ball with a down ass chick chasing strange p*ssy. But such is life.

 

[BigMan]

Nah. Men claim to be easy until you get with em and realize, ya’ll got all kinds of messed up hang ups ya’ll avoid simply b/c you don’t dig into your emotions. Ya’ll hide behind that “we simple” stuff.
Meanwhile dudes will have a perfect 10 and be cheating on her with a 5, wanting to fukk something completely different. Not to mention the Madonna/slut complexes and more.

what that gotta do with attraction Books lmao


you be psychoanalyzing men all the time, we simple

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

what that gotta do with attraction Books lmao


you be psychoanalyzing men all the time, we simple

All the time. Im onto ya’ll

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Well then something about his personality might have made her clit wanna run and hide. It happens. God knows I’ve been there. When I was dating I met some dudes who were fine fine and as soon as they opened their mouth, it was like nails on a chalkboard. Or they just seemed strange. Gave off weirdo vibes. Ruined the whole vibe. Meh. Such is life.

"He was fine until he opened his mouth." The amount of times I heard my FWBs say this nikkas be literally talking themselves outta p*ssy.

Too many people out here think looks are the only thing you need. Might as well fukk a Mannequin then, if it's strictly about sex.

 

[AngryBaby]

Have a jail bird nikka with a ridiculous face tattoo be able to hold a conversation and attention of a random bird better than you with your Nuclear Navy job and high PiCAT score brehs

Ehhh physicist dude wasn’t bad looking. Bet money he can land a cute chick of a different race easier than the face tattoo guy can. I look at dudes who can appeal to the most different types of girls. not nikkas who can only appeal to black women. and this chick was the type of chick that dates dudes who can only appeal to black women, you can tell lol most dudes on the coil are exactly that type of dude (hiding behind militancy) so this concept is foreign to them.

 

[AngryBaby]

Women aren't forced nor should they, to be attracted to someone they do not like, as a man you are not entitled to anything from a woman . Everyone has their preferences and has the right to enforce that. The only issue I have is the same folks will be the first one to complain and hurl insults at this brother if he dares date another woman of a different culture or race.

I think he’ll appeal to a wider variety of races than the other dudes she gave more time to…or even the dude she’ll end up dating. The guy was good looking…pause lol. She’s the type of black woman that primarily only dated black dudes, so she’s used to an archetype. Black women are worse about this than other women actually Lol

 

[Dave24]

I think he’ll appeal to a wider variety of races than the other dudes she gave more time to…or even the dude she’ll end up dating. The guy was good looking…pause lol. She’s the type of black woman that primarily only dated black dudes, so she’s used to an archetype. Black women are worse about this than other women actually Lol

What if he had social anxiety and was socially inept, would he still appeal to a lot of women?

 

[AngryBaby]

He’s better looking than she is lol guarantee he can get better looking chick of another race, she’ll end up with an average looking Nikki who is an archetype she can handle. Dudes value is higher, the looks aspect weighs heavily in that. Deep down…she knows he’ll be alright

 

[Dave24]

He’s better looking than she is lol guarantee he can get better looking chick of another race, she’ll end up with an average looking Nikki who is an archetype she can handle. Dudes value is higher, the looks aspect weighs heavily in that. Deep down…she knows he’ll be alright

She is very attractive imo

 

[AngryBaby]

What if he had social anxiety and was socially inept, would he still appeal to a lot of women?

He wasn’t that inept. She just wanted someone more nikkerish, and other races don’t gaf about that.

this being the type of forum this is…primarily black. You get a lot of dudes who don’t know what I’m talking about because they are in that club house of black dudes who appeal only to their own…this may hurt feelings tho

 

[AngryBaby]

She is very attractive imo

She’s…not going to appeal other races to the same degree that I think he could.