Woman ghosted mid-date for admitting that she…

[voltronblack]

Sad to hear. Hopefully she meets a guy who is cool with that or who is a virgin.

that not the problem it her wanting to wait until she marry to have sex that why dude ghost her he was just trying to smash

 

[The ADD]

Guess it wasn’t too big an issue

 

[Neuromancer]

that not the problem it her wanting to wait until she marry to have sex that why dude ghost her he was just trying to smash

Well a guy who is a virgin might still be more willing to wait I'd assume.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

nikkas get ghosted every day

She'll be aight

 

[Braman]

that not the problem it her wanting to wait until she marry to have sex that why dude ghost her he was just trying to smash

People keep saying this and it’s not true.

You can be 100% marriage minded and be looking for the one and STILL not be able to handle the expectation of no sex for the next 2-3 years. (Or longer).

That’s why this is on HER. Forget the ghosting that’s low hanging fruit that’s not changing anybody’s life. The bigger issue is she’s dating in a ‘normal’ way in a normal dating pool while looking for a complete anomaly.

It’s ego. It’s fear. The man who will accept that is NOT gonna be just randomly found on hinge …and definitely not when abstinence is not explicitly stated on the profile. It’s completely delusional and wasting time. ‘We talked about love languages and our careers’ did you talk about his relationship with Christ? Bc that’s the man you need to find

 

[The_Sheff]

If she looking for a man willing to accept a 30+ woman who aint trying to fukk unless we get married at some point 2 years down the line she needs to be advertising her services in church, not to the general public. Also she needs to understand that she is going to be courted at a HEAVY discount compared to what she may feel she deserves. Meaning a nikka with heavy means and options is not going for that shyt.

Back when i was willing to go to church for a woman i saw a chick in there that was a legit 10, face, titties, ass, skin, lips, hair, the entire package. She was married and had a kid by this Akademiks looking frumpy nikka. I was thoroughly confused so i asked my girl how the fukk that happened. She told me that woman was serious with religion and would not have sex with anyone before marriage, that dude she ended up with was the only one who stuck it out the entire way, all the other nikkas she would bring to church ended up bouncing after she refused to give it up. That nikka got a DEEP DISCOUNT for a couple years of dry balls because from the outside looking in he definitely outkicked his coverage with her.

 

[karim]

I went to HS with this girl

Cliffs?

She matched with a tall dark and handsome breh on Hinge, met him for a date (walk in the park and later Pizza). Conservation was going great and she told him she was a virgin saving herself for marriage. Breh said that's great but when they drove to the Pizza place in their respective cars, he bounced. I stopped watching after that, because she's really long winded and her voice is annoying.

 

[The ADD]

She matched with a tall dark and handsome breh on Hinge, met him for a date (walk in the park and later Pizza). Conservation was going great and she told him she was a virgin saving herself for marriage. Breh said that's great but when they drove to the Pizza place in their respective cars, he bounced. I stopped watching after that, because she's really long winded and her voice is annoying.

He also tried to set something up again later and said he was wrong

 

[Samori Toure]

She is saving herself for marriage. You willing to wait for marriage to have sex?

A man dating her does not have to wait. She is the one waiting. A dude dating her can have a side woman.

 

[Canon]

we giving bytches that same treatment

I have told girls "nope not interested" and left the second they walked in and looked different or said something I don't care for on a date all year

 

[Braman]

If she looking for a man willing to accept a 30+ woman who aint trying to fukk unless we get married at some point 2 years down the line she needs to be advertising her services in church, not to the general public.

Exactly. She’s misguided. She has a modern, “worldy” dating approach with completely non-worldy desires.

‘He was tall dark and handsome”. And?!

“We talked about travel and where we wanna go’ Did you ask if he wanna go to Heaven?

 

[King P]

Why didn't he tell her that he has an expectation of casual sex BEFORE they went on the date to save both their time?

So because he wasn't willing to wait until marriage, that means he was expecting casual sex

Quite the assumption there

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

So because he wasn't willing to wait until marriage, that means he was expecting casual sex

Quite the assumption there

The fact y’all even entertain this fakkit right here is amazing to me

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Guess it wasn’t too big an issue

Nah that nikka was feeling the heat and pressure from outside sources of her original post
Some nikkas crumble when they get called ain’t shyt
While others Diddy bop on with their lives like these bytches do
Ain’t nobody got time to be feeling sorry for some chick that got ghosted
Like others have posted in here
nikkas get ghosted everyday b
nikka could be on his purpose and have all the qualities a woman is looking for
After she gets that pump of dopamine and a nice meal
bytch never to be found again
nikkas being dishonest in here per coli usual
They see an assuming well put together young lady and say
That nikka buggin
But I guarantee something about her made dude dip
Now it’s just going through the motions of saving face
I’ve been on this earth way too long and dealt with way too much fukkery
But if he likes it
I love it

 

[earthwalka]

It shocked me when my girl told me she was a virgin but I honestly did not give af. I liked her for who she was as a person.

Guys gotta realize that sex is probably one of the least important things when it comes to early stage dating. That’s where a lot of us fukk up.