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How come men are against virgins? I don't get it lol like for how much focus we put on body count , a woman with 0 bodies would be the ideal?

The reason why some to many men are against dating virgins is because most virgins want exclusivity meaning that said virgin expect her significant other to also abstain from sex until marriage.

Also, many people don't get married right away. It could take months until years before jumping the broom.

Therefore, many of most men isn't willing to abstain until marriage which is their right.

Now, if a virgin is OK with her significant other getting some strange on the side while she is dating and waiting until marriage, then maybe things could work out( emphasis on maybe??)


Yeah, dude was foul for ghosting this woman mid date. It was a cowardly thing to do, but people get ghosted all the time on both sides. Women ghost and men ghost. It comes with the territory. *shrugs*
 

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How come men are against virgins? I don't get it lol like for how much focus we put on body count , a woman with 0 bodies would be the ideal?
She could be right body count wise but after dating and marriage she discovers that she doesn't like giving head, she doesn't want to practice learning how to ride dikk properly, you find out she got a very low sex drive while you got a very high one, etc. Men want a test drive before making an long lasting commitments.
 

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What is with all these hand gestures?

bytch are you Italian?

:why:
 

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That lisp was annoying as hell. Made her sound dumb. Cute girl but she needs to date a certain type guy. Most regular men won't deal with the wait till marriage thing. She can find it but her dating pool is limited. She needs to stay in that pool.
 

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I trip off of inflexible people expecting others to be flexible with them.

It's OK to be celibate, abstain, be a virgin, etc.

But, with that choice comes consequences. I feel that people who wanna do the aforementioned need to focus on finding someone who has shared ideology that way everyone is on the same page and it will eliminate the BS.

Now, imagine someone who has had sex, has children but tell you that they wanna be celibate until marriage? But, they also expect you to be exclusive with them meaning forsake others and forsake your desire and practice to be physically intimate in the process?

Will you accept that? Are they trying to run a play to 👀 how you would react?

Been there, done that and charged that nonsense to the game! Smh..
 
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I trip off of inflexible people expecting others to be flexible with them.

It's OK to be celibate, abstain, be a virgin, etc.

But, with that choice comes consequences. I feel that people who wanna do the aforementioned need to focus on finding someone who has shared ideology that way everyone is on the same page and it will eliminate the BS.

Now, imagine someone who has had sex, has children but tell you that they wanna be celibate until marriage? But, they also expect you to be exclusive with them meaning forsake others and forsake your desireamd practice to be physically intimate in the process?

Will you accept that? Are they trying to run a play to 👀 how you would react?

Been there, done that and charged that nonsense to the game! Smh..
No smart man would entertain that.
 

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She's good looking and wants to wait until marriage to have sex? I would invest the time and effort to see if she wife material at this point in my life :yeshrug:

She seems like she knows what she wants. Her date fumbled the bag, big time.

This is why I believe dating apps are a waste of time. She would be better off meeting like minded guys in real life.
 

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Yet people roasted me for 10 pages when I said that modern day men cannot ‘handle’ this. This boy couldn’t handle it so much that he literally FLED from the scene. @Serious @Matt504

 
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