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Me n my homies had this convo a while ago, dating wise convo falls on the man. You can entertain a chick and have her thinking ‘Oh this is going GREAT’ meanwhile you’re bored to death. Bruh I be goin thru the motions bc I AM nice and won’t just leave

Even while she was talking she ambiguously mentioned ‘great conversation’ like 8 times. Yet the first thing she brings up is ‘travel, where we wanna go’ :russell:

Women are oblivious. She’s walking away thinking he’s uninterested bc she a virgin it doesn’t even cross her mind it’s bc she’s boring and basic.
She basically reminded me of an ex that loved to talk.

I'm still traumatized from dealing with her.


So not only is she a virgin, but she's probably the type to want long detailed conversations all the time. :picard:
 

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Which is why I said



So where's my mistake? What didn't I fail to learn from?

I'm not supposed to believe her social media, but I'm also not supposed to do anything to confirm or deny if it matches up IRL?
It wasn’t directed at you. Dudes in general.
 

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Bird babble stories:

“So…i get to the store…park my car…did a pretty good parking job, but there was someone behind my car, so I was like, what is this individual doing behind my car 🤔…so i wait until theyre done, i get a text from my boss, who is only a few months from retirement, and its like, would you retire already? He’s been there for like ten years, wtf….I respond to him about the project im working on, which, i dont even know why we’re doing it 🙄…its ridiculous and honestly a waste of everyone’s time. I have no idea how we’re gonna get it done either….finally the individual moves after tying their shoe or something, i dont even know what that was about. Get out the car, put my purse on the top of the car, reach back in to get my lotion from the center console, which reminds me…gotta get some more shea butter 🙃…get my keys out my purse, i think i lock my door, and start walking to the store…but halfway to the door i’m like “did i lock my door? 🤪?” So, i turn around lock the door, and have to wait for SO many cars to pass…eventually they-“

“Did you get the eggs though? :unimpressed:

“I’M GETTING TO THAT 😩 you never listen 🥺

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How come men are against virgins? I don't get it lol like for how much focus we put on body count , a woman with 0 bodies would be the ideal?
Bc nobody wants a 30+ year old woman that doesn't know how to suck or ride dikk. We dealt with that in high school. Suck that dikk sloppy and do splits on the dikk bytch:takedat:
 

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It's a first date. Neither of them owes anything to the other. He doesn't owe her any closure, he saw a red flag and exited left. I'd advise a woman to do the same thing. Too dangerous out here and people are crazy. The fact she felt the need to use this situation for content leads me to believe dude would have got "told off" and maybe even got his picture taken for more content
 

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How come men are against virgins? I don't get it lol like for how much focus we put on body count , a woman with 0 bodies would be the ideal?
Too many dudes have been pressured, by both men AND women to want non-virgins. The latter due to stigma about body count and a desire to level the playing field for themselves, the former because they're weak bytch-made fukks. We've had threads on this shyt with dudes proudly proclaiming the town bicycle to be too prudish for them and wanting the unicycle that has Genghis Khan's army numbers.:francis:
 

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oh ok. i thought you might have some fresh perspective since your ex is/was a virgin
I feel u but nah I don’t really have anything too productive to add

I did tell the youngin that using her virginity/1 body as a weapon is gonna work less for her as she moves into the real world so we’ll see if my prediction was correct
 

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People in relationships/dating have sex. The exception being this scenario where the man or woman is on a different type of timing where at that point you make it known from the jump what you want.
You coulda stopped at the bolded :heh: The rest doesn’t make sense why would the onus be on me when the overwhelming standard is sex is a given. If she’s on different tine the onus is on HER to say that ‘from jump’, since she is the exception

We are adults. Common sense plays a part. We are also dealing with percentages. If you take 20 random women, there’s a good chance all 20 are NOT virgins nor are they proactively abstinent. So why would inject a variable that isn’t even necessary?!? Why would I go to her and ask ‘so I expect sex, is that ok :mjgrin:


Half would see it as a red flag if not be completely turned off like who is this weirdo.

Like get a grip man :heh: This modern feminist-therapy-metoo babble got y’all seriously overthinking it
 
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