Woman ghosted mid-date for admitting that she…

[The ADD]

Ayyye she in Atlanta too? Someone send ol girl my way, I can work with a virgin

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[Mindfield333]

a 30 year old virgin might be arguably worse than a 40 year old virgin

Nah because women are the gatekeepers. she could have sex tomorrow if she dropped the marriage prerequisite. Men just don’t be getting laid but trying desperately with no prerequisite

 

[jay83]

It's a first date. Neither of them owes anything to the other. He doesn't owe her any closure, he saw a red flag and exited left. I'd advise a woman to do the same thing. Too dangerous out here and people are crazy. The fact she felt the need to use this situation for content leads me to believe dude would have got "told off" and maybe even got his picture taken for more content

The fact she as a God fearing virgin went on the internet to clown dude shows there’s more to the story these what she’s telling. I would love to hear his side of the story.

So dude was cool, good conversation, checked all the boxes and all of a sudden ghosted you? This is why social media is dangerous because it’s not about the truth. It’s just about content, clicks, and half truths. Now every woman who’s been ghosted or heavy religious is gonna ride for this woman. Lol

 

[The_Truth]

Dude shouldn’t have ghosted mid date, but that’s probably something she should have told him during the initial conversation before the date for full transparency.

What time would have been appropriate to discuss your sexual status with a person you haven't met yet?

 

[ThatTruth777]

He could have told her that isn't what he's looking for at this time, ending it on a good note

 

[Phitz]

How come men are against virgins? I don't get it lol like for how much focus we put on body count , a woman with 0 bodies would be the ideal?

this is a good question, and makes sense, but you know alot of these guys on apps are just trying to smash

and for alot of them 1 or 2 bodies is ideal.

That said I dont think virgins should be using apps. I think they should go through a ntework of people to find someone appropriate or she should be going to church conferences WORLD WIDE for her vacation time.

 

[Phitz]

she shouldn't try to date in ATlanta imo

and some peopel should maybe try to be a born again virgin IN ATLANTA, based on thsoe disease rates

 

[Matt504]

He could have told her that isn't what he's looking for at this time, ending it on a good note

The fact that this isn't common sense should tell you how bad things are. We got brothers disappearing mid date and then saying "women do it too"

What happened to men wanting to be men

 

[The_Truth]

That is some fukk ni66a shyt. Just be straight up and tell the woman that's not what you're looking for. Or at the very least, finish the date and then break it off with her.

 

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

What time would have been appropriate to discuss your sexual status with a person you haven't met yet?

From personal experience, I could usually tell from the jump whether a chick is a virgin or not because I always ask the question from the beginning, "when was your last relationship and what happened." A tell tale sign is that they don't have really any dating or real relationship experience because of being a virgin, so I'm slick with it and ask politely and more times than not you'll get the answer.

The majority of chicks will answer the question if you ask and I'm guessing in this example he didn't ask or pick up the cue from the getting to know each other phase.

I actually had this exact situation happen a couple of weeks ago where a chick said that she had no real relationship experience and turns out she had only slept with only 1 guy just a few months ago. I tossed her to the bushes not for that reason, but more so the fact that she was terrible at conversation and her vibe was rather immature like to be a 35 year old woman.

 

[Mindfield333]

I can’t lie, her being a virgin for religious purposes is more of a turnoff for me than any other reason. It shows me she isn’t logical. If she was like “disease is rampant and I’d like to be married first”. And I’ve been interested in a woman that was a virgin and things just didn’t progress… very simple things like physical touch, feeling included & physical touch. There was a weird dynamic where i felt like she was competing with me professionally. It was weird.

 

[MajesticLion]

There was a missed opportunity in the date somewhere for a "Snipa available now on all digital platforms" before he Batmanned off into the night

 

[Commish]

No smart man would entertain that.

No respectable woman would expect a man to accept that as well...

But, that doesn't mean there aren't women out there wouldn't try to run that play on a man...

Trust me, I know and experienced it. Smh..

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Guess it wasn’t too big an issue

I dunno. Maybe it’s because of I’m still caught in the rapture of the trip I took on some shyt the other day, but this is actually not bad.

I know it might suck for her, but he was having some open and honest discussion here. Look at how healthy this is! I think she should continue speaking to him and they should continue to learn about it each other. Not necessarily for sex or relationships but just as two people vibing and getting to know each other. Obviously, they aren’t sexually compatible but that’s the start of some good ass discourse right there. I’m low key kinda proud of both of em.love seeing healthy interactions between men and women.

 

[TV]

Dude was lame because he didn't tell her how he really felt face to face. However, women do this kind of shyt all the time and don't bat an eye cause she got another date or two lined up the next day. Age doesn't matter. They will block you for no reason.