This doesn't bother me anymore because I understand the game.
I think we all need to be real about these two things:
-For the most part, Men want the most beautiful woman their money & status can buy.
-For the most part, Women want the weathiest man/highest level of status that their looks can attain.
Obviously there's other factors, other characteristics and qualities that a person, man or woman can have which would make them attractive or make them qualified to be a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife and actually maintain that relationship over time but ultimately it comes down to the money &status for men and looks for women when it comes to getting in the door. The other qualities will determine how long it lasts.
Look at your favorite rapper's girlfriend BEFORE and AFTER they made it. It's very telling. Sure there's some rappers who are still with the one that held them down from the start but best believe, a lot of these dudes upgraded hard (see Biggie).
Everyone has their place in the market and I think everyone should try to get their highest value for what they have to offer.
This woman is obviously a very attractive woman. She'd be selling herself short if she didn't have a guy with money.
Also the fact that she's making so much money on her own means she doesn't want to feel like she has to carry a man who's lifestyle isn't as good as her's. That's the difference between men and women. A man can bring a woman to their highest level. If a king marries a chick, she become's the queen. If a queen marries a man, he doesn't become the king, he's just the Queen's dude.
I can only speak for myself but because I know the majority of women think like her, I won't settle on looks for any woman I'm taking seriously. I don't care about a woman's degrees, how nurturing a woman is, how kind she is, how smart she is or what else she can provide, if she doesn't meet my attraction threshold, she's not getting in the door. I'm not even asking for a Beyonce, Rihanna or an Instagram model but I need to desire you to the point where your selfie is going to make my day.
The difference between women and men is that most women are BORN with their value, most men (even the men women would find attractive like say 2pac) had to WORK for their value within the marketplace and if I had to WORK for my shyt, I'm not selling it cheaply. I had to get an Ivy League degree, teach myself how to code, get hired to be on TV for my value so I'm going to have a fine woman.
I've SEEN women who I was interested in on my come up basically flee me only for them to view me completely differently after I made started doing better for myself. I had one woman tell me, she wished she had let me bag her instead of her baby father.