Woman says her husband is perfect and does everything right but she’s still not happy. Women in the comment section understand where she’s coming from

Black Magisterialness

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She should break up with him. Fuk it.


Only problem with divorce is how they take half your shyt. The entire system needs to be revamped.

I swear divorce rates would be 90% if folks can just leave with what they brought. :mjlol:

Pre-Nups doggie. We leave with what we came in with. And if I make some new shyt, unless your name is on it....it's mine.

But to the OP, people need to teach women how to articulate their feelings and be more honest. "I don't know why I feel this way" is a lie. There's a myriad of reasons, she just doesn't want to say them because they will make her sound petty and superficial. But we make all sorts of life decisions off petty superficial shyt.

I wanna go shake ass
I hate how you smell
I don't like your family/values
You don't hit it right anymore
I don't want to live in this town anymore
You've become controlling
etc.

Like...I'm not saying those are GOOD reasons, but they are reasons.
 
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Depends how you interpret “checks all the boxes”

If you mean society norms than sure. If that person checks all your own preference boxes & you’re still not happy then it’s a you problem. You’ll never be happy
You can have everything including physical attraction, and still not want the person. There has to be some natural magnetism. Relationships aren’t logical. You can’t force yourself to want to be with someone. And some people aren’t mentally in a place where they can handle a serious relationship. This could be her problem.
 

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You can have everything including physical attraction, and still not want the person. There has to be some natural magnetism. Relationships aren’t logical. You can’t force yourself to want to be with someone. And some people aren’t mentally in a place where they can handle a serious relationship. This could be her problem.
They can be.

Attraction is what is not logical

This idea of basing relationships on 'magnetism' is what led to nonsense like this woman

'Magnetism' can be here today and disappear tomorrow...

Once again, modern individual can't reach contempt: they are just rats on wheels.

Unreachable expectations and eternal voids...
 
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I don’t consider that settling…. If that’s the case, there is more than likely a very logical reason why she couldn’t lock down what she is attracted to
Relationships aren’t logical. Many people are magnetized to the wrong person. And I think we overestimate how many options women have. Most women are limited to the men who choose to pursue them. They have to choose one of them, or be alone. Some choose someone just to avoid being alone because they have good qualities, but there is no strong attraction there. Just because someone isn’t conventionally attractive, doesn’t mean people won’t be attracted to them. This woman is not attractive, yet she was able to get someone who wanted to lock it down. To him, she’s attractive enough to be stuck sleeping next to.
 

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That’s why you only give her the perfect nikka when she earns it.

They like to earn their rewards if it’s too easy they won’t respect you.

I swear to God my wife told me some simple shyt like she knew I was the one because I was the first nikka in her life to tell her no.

I said well bytch we bout to get along splendidly.



20 years later and we still rockin.

:salute:
 
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