ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Brehs, this is 100% on the money. I had to curse out a mutual friend of mine. She blamed black men for black women’s unrealistic beauty standards, and claims we shame them for getting surgery for wanting to look like the non-black women “we” apparently lust over, because we want them
To be less desirable to other races of men.
I don’t usually entertain bird babble but I had to put her in her place. Women are the most critical of women. Some men talk shyt but the majority of us will gas up the most basic bytch just to hit.
If every woman decided to shave her head bald and get rid of their eyebrows, would that stop men fukking? Of course not. Women are only in competition with each other. I can’t stand weave but you won’t see myself or others campaigning against it.
Black women were the main ones spearheading the natural hair movement, not men. And yet, we’re somehow to blame for some of their insecurities over their hair. Like it hasn’t been CACs shaming them for the past couple of centuries.
shyt is ridiculous. I’m not saying there aren’t a$$hole men who shyt on women for their looks but you can’t tell me women are not the most critical. It definitely wasn’t black men shaming that black gymnast for the edges on her hair.
It honesty comes down to desirability. No woman likes competition. Hence why some of them shame us for finding anything attractive that doesn’t fit “their” aesthetics.
tl:dr: don’t try and boost random black women’s self esteem, saying they’re pretty being natural, because you’ll get accused of being controlling.
Everybody want that mythical redbone with a dime face, thick natural curly hair and natural 44P-23-60 measurements. And those women who look like a dime for .5 seconds in their early 20’s and too many times end up blowing up to be like 300-400 lbs and have hella kids. 
