Women aint shyt #factsoflife

[Gold]

Oh come on
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It takes two people to make a baby so I obviously agree that he has to take responsibility for the child now that it is on it's way (congrats OP)

However, if you have an ongoing intimate relationship with someone you should be able to take their word for it when they say they're using birth control. Or do you subscribe to the Hip-Hop mentality of not trusting none of these b*tches? This was a result of her, as a woman, feeling the pressure (whether it be self inflicted or from her surroundings) of having a child. I know from personal experience that some women are prone to make some rash decisions if theyre approaching mid 30s and not happy with their situation.

It speaks volumes of her character and integrity that she felt justified to hide such a huge thing from another person that will affect his life forever. I agree that men in general, especially in our Godforsaken deadbeat community, have to take more responsibility for their seed but you're being incredibly bias and unreasonable here sis.

Lots of truth in this post.

What she did was dirty and very deceitful. Both have responsibility in this event, you cannot absolve her or him of anything.

You have to be very careful with who you trust.

Some brehs out here would go in raw and trust their seed to a girl that they cant even trust with a WiFi password

Not every woman has your best intentions in mind

 

[N.Nashie]

Never forget. A woman can either be your biggest supporter, or your worse enemy. Choose wisely.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

That's not low self esteem I know plenty of career oriented women who want a kid couldnt give a damn about being in a relationship, if they can't have a relationship they settle for a kid, alot of women don't have low self esteem they just don't care!

And yes companionship is a form of using.

Bingo!
The good ole low self esteem excuse

And I also agree with pairing yourself with the wrong person
and having sex with them constantly is a form of addiction.
Nothing good is going to come out of it.

 

[RiffRaff]

According to the Coli females the most egregious thing in this situation wasn't a female that was on BC getting off without telling the person she was sleeping with....

It's not like a fukking condom that you can tell whether or not y'all are clearly using. A lot of issues we have in our community is because you guys just REFUSE to call out women for being ain't shyt and just always assume it's the dudes fault..... always

Jesus Christ as sexist as OP's title was sometimes IDK......

Edit: Don't get me wrong I'm not saying OP didn't fukk up because he did. My girl on the pill and I'm still pulling out. If she's got to get a new prescription then I've got some jimmies. Putting your livelihood 100% in another person is always a risk, I'd rather not take. But to not even mention his baby moms shady actions?

 

[Yup]

That's not low self esteem I know plenty of career oriented women who want a kid couldnt give a damn about being in a relationship, if they can't have a relationship they settle for a kid, alot of women don't have low self esteem they just don't care!

And yes companionship is a form of using.

I disagree.

 

[Yup]

According to the Coli females the most egregious thing in this situation wasn't a female that was on BC getting off without telling the person she was sleeping with....

It's not like a fukking condom that you can tell whether or not y'all are clearly using. A lot of issues we have in our community is because you guys just REFUSE to call out women for being ain't shyt and just always assume it's the dudes fault..... always

Jesus Christ as sexist as OP's title was sometimes IDK......

Where was the woman not called out?

 

[Gold]

I disagree.

You can disagree but that mindset does exist. There are women who want children who also want nothing to do with a serious relationship
The same way there are men who want to go in raw with 50 women and have nothing to do with a serious relationship

You can call this a problem if you want, I just don't think its a self esteem problem

 

[just my thoughts]

The op did it to himself. No sympathy will be had over here. He did something stupid and will now pay for it.

 

[Yup]

You can disagree but that mindset does exist. There are women who want children who also want nothing to do with a serious relationship
The same way there are men who want to go in raw with 50 women and have nothing to do with a serious relationship

You can call this a problem if you want, I just don't think its a self esteem problem

I disagree with the idea that companionship is using someone.

 

[Elle Driver]

just wait until she's on her period
and don't look down

 

[badtguy]

I nutted in this joint like two days ago, she been single for like 7-8 years.... lordt, it was right after her withdrawal period, from birth control tho

Thanks to the OP I'm reminded to stay two steps ahead of these chicks. Nikkas Talk LIKE it's hood chicks only... it isn't. Alot of women can have children and career and don't care about a relationship.

 

[Gold]

I disagree with the idea that companionship is using someone.

Ah ok, I feel you

 

[skeetsinternal]

OP is correct. we as men are gullible and fall for the smokescreens, the lies and the fake shyt these women do. We as men don't take the time to uncover the flaws, unravel the lies to reveal the evil inner core of these women. 99% of the women I dealt with was not shyt, so thats why i hit em with the fake name and number so they could never find me.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Yeah i really didn't pay attention to this shyt. I never thought it could happen to me coz there was no reason for her to do this. She had some lame excuse why she cant abort coz shes 35 etc. Either way i'm gonna raise a winner but cut her out the picture if the lawyer can make it work in my favour.

You said you were running the streets, so do you really think a lawyer/judge is going to do anything in your favor?

are white trailor trash not ghetto? if for 3 years u are broke because you are too lazy to get off your ass and get a job, and u want to live off someone else or the government, then u are in fact ghetto...it isnt about color
pulling the race card when no color was even mentioned is just pathetic...i could care less what color the bytch is/was..he said she was broke and got herself pregnant,obviously with no way to support herself or the unborn child

Who are you speaking of in this post? Op said she was an 'independent woman', that had her own place. So obviously it wasn't the woman that was broke. And who was living off of govt assistance? I seemed to have missed that post. If the woman was able to afford her own place then how was she not able to support herself?

According to the Coli females the most egregious thing in this situation wasn't a female that was on BC getting off without telling the person she was sleeping with....

so according to us, what is it?

 

[Swirv]

No bright side. He had a kid with an old unattractive bag he aint into under the worse circumstances and is going to pay half. Shut up you glass half full fakkit. He could've had a kid with someone he actually liked. Tired of these weak hearted fools acting like any kid is a blessing, cows and deers have kids everyday idiot.

Some people can't have kids you emotional hoe and would do anything to have them. Op is on here complaining when he chose to put his dikk in the girl unprotected. From your sociopathic outburst maybe you have messed up too. At the end of the day if you can't see yourself raising a kid with the person you're fukking then you should keep your dikk in your pants. Instead of whining like a bytch when the inevitable occurs.