I've learned in this thread that you shouldn't trust your s/o. Ironically, that nugget of wisdom is coming from the same people who claim relationships are founded on trust.
The same people who would be offended if asked for a paternity test, to sign a prenuptial, or outright second guessed repeatedly by their s/o.
Seems the arguments here bend and contort to whatever angle they can be used to absolve women of any wrong doing.
This is jarring to the men who are actually misguided enough to see them as their equal, but women will remind you of their genetic predisposition if you allow them to.
They are children mentally. There to enhance your life, please you, and even help you build, but they are mentally incapable of much else.
Stop treating them as your equal and expecting society to empathize with you.
Of course you'd be in the wrong if you reversed your vasectomy, didn't tell the woman you'd been seeing for years, and impregnated her. No one in this thread would say any different.
Of course you're at fault for that same woman abstaining from taking her birth control and not informing you.
A ten year old telling a lie to the cops doesn't suffer the consequences as a 21 year old.
You're men. They're not.
The sooner you ditch the fear of "mysogingy" and realize the role society had you cast in from the second you dropped out the womb and reinforces despite the insistence that you're "equal," the better off you will fare with women and society's expectations of you.
It's not fair but being a man isn't supposed to be.
