Women aint shyt #factsoflife

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You mad online. I'm mad in real life. I mean my n!ggas remind me every day I just caught an L. They laugh about everything from what the childs complexion will be (coz brehette is dark skinned) to the crazy situations the child will face in life (check my posts and the kinda shyt i'm around). It won't be a walk in the park. Earlier in the year was hoping I just died but I'm just gonna man up and put my lil 25-50% of my pay aside for my seed for as long as I can and hope I exert some influence on its life so it can be comfortable. The lady is already talking of moving to a bigger domicile so I see how the costs are going to grow significantly.. The new spot she wants is 100% more expensive than her current spot. LOL.. L train.

You have some bytch ass friends.
You impregnated a so-called "broke bytch"
You were fukkin' with a so-called "broke bytch."
You're about to get got for CS.
I would neg you but life is doing that to you just fine.
 
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I don't think there is a better deal in this situation.......they were using each other for sex, he aparently was using her for shelter, she was using him for money and now these to users have to get over themselves because it is not about them anymore it is about THE KID!!! I wonder how old the OP is? I know the baby mama is in her mid thirties....
Met 3 years a go at 27 i presume hes 30.
 

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My homeboy said this too. Yes once i impregnated a woman who was off birth control and didn't tell me(aka once she fell pregnant).

Anyway brehs. I'm bout to take this 18 year L, just learn from me.

Ain't over breh, consider this a defaulted student loan breh, you good breh just keep on grinding.
 

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Man its hard being a dude forth or fifth choice. She had to be touched mentally to accept that kind of treatment.

Well you tied to her for eighteen years now. Time to scoop up that second gig before those license get revoked :mjpls:
This lady clearly has low self esteem and is holding to relationship for dear life. Still wrong to bring up a child in this situation.
 

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She probably insecure, letting you smash raw without s rubber now she gonna take this bread from buddy and pretty herself up some more for a old nikka like me to come through and Cape.
 

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This is why I like J. Cole so much.. Perfectly explains your situation.


Op play this song with her and make the best of it.

 

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Shoulda. She can keep it. May just move to another town and let bygones by bygones.
So you're going to be another deadbeat black "dad". Exactly what the black community needs.
Did you read that wrong ? I said the homies said that. Black people are caught up on complexion. It aint a secret. I'm black and been black. I said they laughed coz the kid would be of dark complexion based on my complexion and the mothers complexion and the fact that people have a preference for lighter skinned (media & people in general). Don't get caught up in your feelings and mis interpret what I said.
nikka please, don't act like it's ONLY your friends that feel that way. If YOU didn't feel that way, then why right this???

Yeah I guess if she was a bag light skinned, affluent chick I woulda put that seed in her asap.

If you have a problem with having a dark skinned kid WHY would you go raw in a DARK SKINNED CHICK? :mindblown:
Like, what kind of sense does that even make?
 

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I have never came in a girl in my entire life... ever.... even with a condom on.

I know i'm missing out with my air-tight pullout game but I know one thing for damn sure, no girl is EVER gonna call me up with some "its yours" bullshyt. Having a child out of wedlock is simply not an option for me. :whoa:

There is just too much at stake just for 15 seconds of :noah:

And the post-nut clarity would be depression inducing :wow:
 
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