Women and their emotions...

Black Magisterialness

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Ilol how old are you again love? but even then I am not saying if I start out as anything casual I will try to force anything...but I am saying I cannot control how I feel and I do not like that...unfortunately it may control how I start acting towards him as well...but that is why men are foolish for expecting anything completely casual with a woman...

that's mature and perceptive to admit that. But i think its short-sighted to think that there AREN'T women who can't do casual because there are. But beyond that my issue is that there are women who TRY to force a relationship out of that casual and that's where they fail.

If you are special and things are moving forward in a natural and organic way then a relationship with create itself. That's my point, women fail when they force the issue with too many questions, too much insecurity and too much silliness in most cases. I have more respect for a woman that can say "I like you too much to be casual with you any longer" than the one that just lets the mental shytstorm continue until she spazes out and tries to press the issue.
 
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As far as sex goes, I just flat out don't care for it now and I've never really enjoyed it before I got to this point, so I've "technically" never caught any feelings from having sex with a guy. Now that's not to say I've never caught feelings for a guy but if I had feelings for him it was before sex was involved.
 

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We play the same game but we play it in reverse.

Men risk rejection when trying to get p*ssy. The reason we don't feel the same as women is because if we also had those feelings and got rejected as often as we do, the suicide rate would go sky high. So we're very vulnerable at first. Women say they wish they were men but don't even really grasp what it's like on the level of approaching.

women risk rejection after the sex. cause if they have feelings (not even necessarily "love" but just a certain level of affection) and the guy doesn't feel the exact same way, then you feel awful. As Patrice O'neal often said (paraphrasing):

In general. women aren't selling what men are buying and vice-versa. Men will sell implied love for the vague promise of p*ssy and women will trade implied future p*ssy for the vague promise of love. Woman love a dude cause he's charming, charismatic, attractive, etc etc. She'll have sex with him because she likes him on some level. She did it because she felt that way about him and wants him to feel the same way. but why should he like her/love her back when she hasn't done much that makes her loveable?...but the way he worded it was so much better.
 

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As far as sex goes, I just flat out don't care for it now and I've never really enjoyed it before I got to this point, so I've "technically" never caught any feelings from having sex with a guy. Now that's not to say I've never caught feelings for a guy but if I had feelings for him it was before sex was involved.

you never enjoyed sex love? why?
 

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you never enjoyed sex love? why?

I was chilling and drinking with 2 female friends last night...and they mentioned how they don't really get any joy or satisfaction out of sex, more because they have to concentrate so hard just to cum...If I didn't do business with them I def woulda made moves on them. But their reasoning did seem fair enough. Too bad some women have to deal with that.
 

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you never enjoyed sex love? why?

I've enjoyed sex with a guy but only because I liked him if that makes sense. But sex was just an activity you know? It could have been a date, sex, dinner, etc...I only enjoyed those activities because it was with that guy.

I think what I should have said is that I've never had an orgasm from intercourse and what good is intercourse if you have to top yourself off when it's over? Now I just don't even bother.
 

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I've enjoyed sex with a guy but only because I liked him if that makes sense. But sex was just an activity you know? It could have been a date, sex, dinner, etc...I only enjoyed those activities because it was with that guy.

I think what I should have said is that I've never had an orgasm from intercourse and what good is intercourse if you have to top yourself off when it's over? Now I just don't even bother.
that sucks...
 
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