We play the same game but we play it in reverse.
Men risk rejection when trying to get p*ssy. The reason we don't feel the same as women is because if we also had those feelings and got rejected as often as we do, the suicide rate would go sky high. So we're very vulnerable at first. Women say they wish they were men but don't even really grasp what it's like on the level of approaching.
women risk rejection after the sex. cause if they have feelings (not even necessarily "love" but just a certain level of affection) and the guy doesn't feel the exact same way, then you feel awful. As Patrice O'neal often said (paraphrasing):
In general. women aren't selling what men are buying and vice-versa. Men will sell implied love for the vague promise of p*ssy and women will trade implied future p*ssy for the vague promise of love. Woman love a dude cause he's charming, charismatic, attractive, etc etc. She'll have sex with him because she likes him on some level. She did it because she felt that way about him and wants him to feel the same way. but why should he like her/love her back when she hasn't done much that makes her loveable?...but the way he worded it was so much better.