Women and their emotions...

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I was chilling and drinking with 2 female friends last night...and they mentioned how they don't really get any joy or satisfaction out of sex, more because they have to concentrate so hard just to cum...If I didn't do business with them I def woulda made moves on them. But their reasoning did seem fair enough. Too bad some women have to deal with that.

I never understood this poor women...they are having sex with a selfish lover...lol I have to concentrate not to cum as soon as I feel it slide in me...but its crazy that some women hate sex...

tell them to head to the sex store...and get it in with themselves and take it from there:shaq:
 

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Lol..I'm really not..I'm a one man kinda woman...I don't like to share.


Real talk...neither do men.

A lot of men may want to smash random broads, but the lions' share of us would hate to think their prospects are smashin' other niccas. Even if a nicca don't "love them hoes", he would prefer to think in his mind that every brizz in his phone is waitin' for him to call on the Late Night Hype.
 

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that sucks...
LOL!! I used to feel that way but it has become my own little version of "normal". I'm sure eventually it will be an issue I'll need to deal with but for now I don't feel I'm missing out on anything.
 

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I've enjoyed sex with a guy but only because I liked him if that makes sense. But sex was just an activity you know? It could have been a date, sex, dinner, etc...I only enjoyed those activities because it was with that guy.

I think what I should have said is that I've never had an orgasm from intercourse and what good is intercourse if you have to top yourself off when it's over? Now I just don't even bother.

ohhhh girl...I understand...but you do not enjoy it because you have never had an orgasm...how often do you masturbate?

you know some men have to be taught tell them what pleases you...
 

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I never understood this poor women...they are having sex with a selfish lover...lol I have to concentrate not to cum as soon as I feel it slide in me...but its crazy that some women hate sex...

tell them to head to the sex store...and get it in with themselves and take it from there:shaq:

They can get off themselves, I think they were talking thru penetration.
 

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LOL!! I used to feel that way but it has become my own little version of "normal". I'm sure eventually it will be an issue I'll need to deal with but for now I don't feel I'm missing out on anything.

I don't want this to sound insensitive...but why youon'o how to catch yo' cutt and buss yo' gnutt during sex??

You don't make a nicca finish you off? Be a Bedroom Boss Beeitch and squirt in that dude face! Head 'til you get enuff, you knowmsayin'??
 

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ohhhh girl...I understand...but you do not enjoy it because you have never had an orgasm...how often do you masturbate?

you know some men have to be taught tell them what pleases you...

I don't hardly masturbate anymore. I probably stopped doing it often after my daughter was born and 4 years later it's probably once a month or something. I don't think much about sex either to be honest. If I do get in the "mood" I'm usually able to push the thought away very easily.

I don't want this to sound insensitive...but why youon'o how to catch yo' cutt and buss yo' gnutt during sex??

You don't make a nicca finish you off? Be a Bedroom Boss Beeitch and squirt in that dude face! Head 'til you get enuff, you knowmsayin'??
You don't sound insensitive but penetration wise, I wouldn't know what to tell a guy to do to to make me have an orgasm. That's probably pretty juvenile considering my age but that's my reality. From oral sex or fingering, I can guide him home if he's having trouble but not with penetration.
 

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We play the same game but we play it in reverse.

Men risk rejection when trying to get p*ssy. The reason we don't feel the same as women is because if we also had those feelings and got rejected as often as we do, the suicide rate would go sky high. So we're very vulnerable at first. Women say they wish they were men but don't even really grasp what it's like on the level of approaching.

women risk rejection after the sex. cause if they have feelings (not even necessarily "love" but just a certain level of affection) and the guy doesn't feel the exact same way, then you feel awful. As Patrice O'neal often said (paraphrasing):

In general. women aren't selling what men are buying and vice-versa. Men will sell implied love for the vague promise of p*ssy and women will trade implied future p*ssy for the vague promise of love. Woman love a dude cause he's charming, charismatic, attractive, etc etc. She'll have sex with him because she likes him on some level. She did it because she felt that way about him and wants him to feel the same way. but why should he like her/love her back when she hasn't done much that makes her loveable?...but the way he worded it was so much better.

lol @ the suicide rate going up...

but no one said anything about loving anyone...but I would imagine most women would want their feelings reciprocated....
 

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So I knew I always avoided casual sex....but I could never pinpoint specifically why...I just knew it was not for me...but now I realize one of the main reasons is because I could never separate my emotions when it came to sex...

I heard of women doing it but I wonder how do they do it? I am not saying I necessarily fell in love with a man after sex...but I do notice my feelings change towards them in a positive manner...and now I am wondering has sex clouded my judgment as far as who I have been in relationships with. I mean you really do not get a good idea of who you are dealing with until you have been with them for a year imo...but outside of losing my virginity I never waited that long I usually wait a few months and by then the emotional attachment is already there...

I know women that claim they know how to have sex with a man and not give two fukcs about them afterwards...but I wonder is it even possible I really do not see how...I do not like it though...it kinda makes me feel weak...which is why I know I could not handle casual sex cause I would probably be bitter if a man hit and never called me back:manny:

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You? IMPOSSIBLE...you are in COMPLETE control of your actions. You have sex with a man because you want to...not some emotional attachment
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