Women and Their Exes...wtf

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Some powerful posting in this thread. I would let her sleep and when she wakes up just tell her it's been real and that she needs to leave. Be courteous but firm about it, that is the only way she will realise that she fukked something up that could have been potentially good for her. If you go apeshyt and start throwing things all she needs to tell her/whoever else she spins this shyt to is 'oh well he was just crazy anyway he broke his tv and punched a hole in the wall'. Go out like a sir.
 

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I'mma be real with you on what's about to happen. She's going to try to flip the script on you. "Why were you snooping? I thought I knew you better than that? How long have you been spying on me." She's going to try to make you feel bad for discovering her infidelity and blame it on you. Like Reincarnation brought up, she'll probably toss in that, "Oh I didn't know we were official like that. You never made it clear enough to me." And here goes on more... "It's not even like that. Why are you being so quick to judge? He's just a friend. I'm not even feeling him like that." The tears might even come out.

Don't buy none of that, don't argue with her and don't allow her to emotionally manipulate you. Stand your ground, kick her to the curb and keep it pushing. If she really valued what you brought like she's about to pretend to do, she would have never made moves to lost it, so don't believe all the tears and pleas that will come.
 

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I'mma be real with you on what's about to happen. She's going to try to flip the script on you. "Why were you snooping? I thought I knew you better than that? How long have you been spying on me." She's going to try to make you feel bad for discovering her infidelity and blame it on you. Like Reincarnation brought up, she'll probably toss in that, "Oh I didn't know we were official like that. You never made it clear enough to me." And here goes on more... "It's not even like that. Why are you being so quick to judge? He's just a friend. I'm not even feeling him like that." The tears might even come out.

Don't buy none of that, don't argue with her and don't allow her to emotionally manipulate you. Stand your ground, kick her to the curb and keep it pushing. If she really valued what you brought like she's about to pretend to do, she would have never made moves to lost it, so don't believe all the tears and pleas that will come.

Yep. Going with that. Like I said I know it's the right thing to do. It's just good to get some affirmation sometimes.

I'm just going to cut it off, cold turkey. I'm not even going to bless her with an explanation. Like you guys said it'll just get twisted. We were supposed to go out tonight too. Ignoring those calls/texts when she's asking why I'm late. Heh. She'll get the picture by tomorrow morning.
 

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Yep. Going with that. Like I said I know it's the right thing to do. It's just good to get some affirmation sometimes.

I'm just going to cut it off, cold turkey. I'm not even going to bless her with an explanation. Like you guys said it'll just get twisted. We were supposed to go out tonight too. Ignoring those calls/texts when she's asking why I'm late. Heh. She'll get the picture by tomorrow morning.

i hate it that it happene to you

she looks good :ehh:
what that thang like breh
 

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Yep. Going with that. Like I said I know it's the right thing to do. It's just good to get some affirmation sometimes.

I'm just going to cut it off, cold turkey. I'm not even going to bless her with an explanation. Like you guys said it'll just get twisted. We were supposed to go out tonight too. Ignoring those calls/texts when she's asking why I'm late. Heh. She'll get the picture by tomorrow morning.

No she won't. Be upfront and tell her why, but don't ask for any explanations from her though. Then cut off all contact. People won't learn and grow from their mistakes if they don't know what they are.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
No she won't. Be upfront and tell her why, but don't ask for any explanations from her though. Then cut off all contact. People won't learn and grow from their mistakes if they don't know what they are.


If someone is over 21, and they don't realize playing a game like that is a mistake it's not really his job to be their teacher. Let em rot is my motto :manny:
 

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I'd have some fun with it and see if she actually spills the beans or not.

I'll just say....most women have that one nikka that still lingers around. The one problem with this one is a) she doesn't tell you that her and her ex talk. b) like someone else said...she didn't claim you.

You already know where you stand, sir. You know what to do.
 

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Fact: I'm still in good terms with every girl i ever been with except for 2 of them and most of them i can holler at any day

I thought I was the only one that did this.

:ohhh:


I finish things amicably and smoothly.

Come to think of plenty of dudes are still lurking like :jawalrus:
 

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i hate it that it happene to you

she looks good :ehh:
what that thang like breh

Man. It's good. I won't lie. And she gives up the ass, if you're into that :shaq:. Hate to have to drop her from the team to be honest. It seems like you just can't have a casual exclusive relationship anymore.

But no way in hell I'm sticking around for some triangle bullshyt. That just breeds jealousy and poor decision making.

On to the next.
 

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Man. It's good. I won't lie. And she gives up the ass, if you're into that :shaq:. Hate to have to drop her from the team to be honest. It seems like you just can't have a casual exclusive relationship anymore.

But no way in hell I'm sticking around for some triangle bullshyt. That just breeds jealousy and poor decision making.

On to the next.

i hate to say this..send her to the D-league

just in case your in a drought :skip: you might need that puss again
just dont wife her
 

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I thought I was the only one that did this.

:ohhh:


I finish things amicably and smoothly.

Come to think of plenty of dudes are still lurking like :jawalrus:

Yeah. I stayed seeing this one chick for a couple years and through a few of her relationships. :yeshrug:

I can't really be mad at it.
 

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Man. It's good. I won't lie. And she gives up the ass, if you're into that :shaq:. Hate to have to drop her from the team to be honest. It seems like you just can't have a casual exclusive relationship anymore.

But no way in hell I'm sticking around for some triangle bullshyt. That just breeds jealousy and poor decision making.

On to the next.

:mindblown:
 

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Man. It's good. I won't lie. And she gives up the ass, if you're into that :shaq:. Hate to have to drop her from the team to be honest. It seems like you just can't have a casual exclusive relationship anymore.

But no way in hell I'm sticking around for some triangle bullshyt. That just breeds jealousy and poor decision making.

On to the next.

:dwillhuh:
 
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