Women Are More #GMB Than Men These Days...

Black Nate Grey

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I was reading something that said that every new man a girl sleeps with, her chances of falling in love decreases. Someone confirm if this is ducktales or nah.
No it's true, I'll link the studies later but too much sex fukks up your brain and biochemistry in terms of ability to form attachments or bonds, I.e love. The names of the chemicals escape me. This affects both men and women though.

I've witnessed this in my personal life, the ones who have the most sex (I'm talking fiendish one night stands) weirdly have no 'good' friends or relationships really, it's a complete paradigm shift to what you would expect.

So yes, there is scientific evidence for not cuffing a slut or the male equivalent.
 

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How old are you and how is your mom? Most women even 40 years ago were not married at 18.
my moms is 54 & i'm 29

just saying, a lot of folks I know from that generation got married early :francis: (and are still together)
 

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my moms is 54 & i'm 29

just saying, a lot of folks I know from that generation got married early :francis: (and are still together)
My mother is 57 and she said most girls around her way (Brooklyn projects) were probably shacked up/had a kid by their early 20s but they weren't necessarily married. She had me late most of her peers have grandchildren in like elementary school and shyt.
 

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Used to think ya'll were lying about this. But seeing it a lot lately. Especially amongst older established women.

The mentality seems to be financial stability means higher standards in mate compatibility and if he cheats, he's disposable. A lot of women aren't willing to tie their wealth to dudes with high risk factor of cheating.

I never thot I'd see the day when chicks are like "hmmm about being life partners" to protect their wealth. Wouldn't be surprised if Serena ain't thinking the same thing.

I also think a lot of women don't want to be tied down. Birthrates are at an all time low and chicks just ain't poppin em out anymore. Women want to travel and have fun and raising children is falling out of vogue.

I dunno.
 

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Usually what most of them have confessed to me is that once they have been used up even if a nice man comes along because they have been so broken they internally believe they do not deserve the guy and usually curve him and continue in the cycle of getting pumped and dumped.

Dealt with so many women like this :francis:
 

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Actually while you can't prove your anecdote, my fact has and can be proven easily with but 3 minutes of research on google. Affairs and or crazy sexual practices have been going on for generations

Just look at those school teacher scenarios...you think those are new? You're in for a big surprise my friend.

You are the one using anecdotes. If we look at history -, he's right. Riding the "cock carousel" then getting married later is a new thing. For a long time, women were getting married very young; they just didn't have the time to ride the "cock carousel". In some places, riding the "cock carousel" was synonym of death. Sexual emancipation is a new thing. Sexuality was controlled, even though you can still fond examples of crazy sexual practices or affairs.You're applying today's standards to the rest of the human history. The idea that women can do whatever they want with other bodies is a new thing.
 

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You are the one using anecdotes. If we look at history -, he's right. Riding the "cock carousel" then getting married later is a new thing. For a long time, women were getting married very young; they just didn't have the time to ride the "cock carousel". In some places, riding the "cock carousel" was synonym of death. Sexual emancipation is a new thing. Sexuality was controlled, even though you can still fond examples of crazy sexual practices or affairs.You're applying today's standards to the rest of the human history. The idea that women can do whatever they want with other bodies is a new thing.

Till I'm proven wrong with actual numbers, I'll be sure to join you there fella. But divorce rates have never been higher, sexual activity amongst teens is at a record high, and you can't stop the majority of humans from being degenerates.
 

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Till I'm proven wrong with actual numbers, I'll be sure to join you there fella. But divorce rates have never been higher, sexual activity amongst teens is at a record high, and you can't stop the majority of humans from being degenerates.

You're talking about today, I'm talking about the past.

All the things you're describing are true, but the idea that things always been like that is wrong.
 
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