But how do we know if this is the exception if most women aren't tested like that?A normal mothering instinct. Many women...specifically in our convoluted society are damaged/underdevoloped emotionally. Scarred even. This will undeniably affect the treatment of a child mothered by them. This is evidenced by a scarred woman bringing emotional baggage into a new relationship with a man. This is the exception and not rule.
Or they just aren't truthful with how they feel, because of guilt?
We won't know the truth until most women get tested with something.