Women Ask Where ARe The Real Men, But Where Are The Real Women ?

William F. Russell

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Please don't start with the internet debate semantics.

It's not semantics.

You claimed that you responded to @Emperor_ReinScarf 's point yet all you did was make false equivalencies. By making those false equivalencies, you shifted the main issue in his post (don't expect sympathy is you attempt to domestic a cobra). And you implied that he was being bitter in his response.

It's only semantics when we're describing what you did to a tee.
 

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I don't feel sorry , people don't change, choose better .

No one cares if s guy wife's a stripper and gets cheated on he was dumb he was a idiot.

But if a woman falls for a azzhole who has been known to use his hands oh no :sadcam:

Just like that bill Cosby ish, known for years through the grapevine but women kept putting themselves in situations with bill

I don't feel sorry


Um, because you make not feeling anything for someone who was beaten a personal stance? What does that sound like to you? And it sucks that you got choked out, that must have messed you up. I've said the same thing to women who say the same thing you did about domestic abuse.

I'm not trying to turn this into some gender wars tit for tat. I don't like when people use domestic abuse to try and make their point against women OR men. And that's all it is.
 
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I don't feel sorry , people don't change, choose better .

No one cares if s guy wife's a stripper and gets cheated on he was dumb he was a idiot.

But if a woman falls for a azzhole who has been known to use his hands oh no :sadcam:

Just like that bill Cosby ish, known for years through the grapevine but women kept putting themselves in situations with bill

I don't feel sorry
If someone gets cheated on, I feel sorry. If someone gets treated bad, I feel sorry. And I feel like they deserve sympathy :manny:
It's not semantics.

You claimed that you responded to @Emperor_ReinScarf 's point yet all you did was make false equivalencies. By making those false equivalencies, you shifted the main issue in his post (don't expect sympathy is you attempt to domestic a cobra). And you implied that he was being bitter in his response.

It's only semantics when we're describing what you did to a tee.
He posted an opinion and I posted mine. If you want to pick my post apart because I'm not a professor on domestic abuse who can expertly pick apart some saying that someone just made up on the spot, whatever
 

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Each person has their definition of REAL.......But first and foremost, if you not about respect or loyalty, then you really aren't real. Because lacking either of those two is going to make whatever relationship you enter end quickly.

Women want a man that will respect her and be loyal and so do we....so if you know you only used to runnin up in several women or have an innate lack of respect for women, then you will not see anything REAL in a woman that is serene and not like what you're used to and vice versa for dudes.

If you a dude that is on your grind, you have real respect for women and you are a loyal dude,but don't have stereotypical looks and physique that women have been steered to look for, then you shouldn't be looking for females you know have this type of thinking. This would entail being UNREAL. They're not really looking for respect,stability and loyalty. They're not looking for you. Go find the girl that once you get into knowing her, she speaks about her career and wanting family, and then you see she comes with most of the qualities the op states, but she may not be a DIME or even on par with the looks you want, then you snatch her up, because 99% of the time, you have found a REAL woman.

Too many people PASS up the right thing, because it doesn't LOOK like the right thing......Watch what they say and do....not how they look. That's where dudes fail and women for that matter.
 

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Each person has their definition of REAL.......But first and foremost, if you not about respect or loyalty, then you really aren't real. Because lacking either of those two is going to make whatever relationship you enter end quickly.

Women want a man that will respect her and be loyal and so do we....so if you know you only used to runnin up in several women or have an innate lack of respect for women, then you will not see anything REAL in a woman that is serene and not like what you're used to and vice versa for dudes.

If you a dude that is on your grind, you have real respect for women and you are a loyal dude,but don't have stereotypical looks and physique that women have been steered to look for, then you shouldn't be looking for females you know have this type of thinking. This would entail being UNREAL. They're not really looking for respect,stability and loyalty. They're not looking for you. Go find the girl that once you get into knowing her, she speaks about her career and wanting family, and then you see she comes with most of the qualities the op states, but she may not be a DIME or even on par with the looks you want, then you snatch her up, because 99% of the time, you have found a REAL woman.

Too many people PASS up the right thing, because it doesn't LOOK like the right thing......Watch what they say and do....not how they look. That's where dudes fail and women for that matter.


There is a vast difference between what women claim they want and how women actually behave.

Why should men respect women who clearly do not respect themselves?
 

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There is a vast difference between what women claim they want and how women actually behave.

Why should men respect women who clearly do not respect themselves?

That's what I mean, if dudes see this the first time he encounters and engages in a woman, then that should be all he needs to know she not REAL. I mean there's a lot of dudes that will put up with it because of maybe her looks, same goes for women who put up with men they know or come to find out are not like how they talk it. That's why I said watch what they say and do.

You can only masquerade for too long....:manny:
 

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if you have already been with beautiful women you don't get caught up and look for more substance.

I remember my uncle dude would always show up at family functions with the baddest chicks of all different ethnicies, when he settled down and got married it was with a reg plain jane I was like :mindblown: but as I got older my aunt is everything you would want in a wife

now im not saying wife the plain jane or whatever, but beauty is fleeting,

My Uncle was the same exact way when it came to the ladies. My mom would tell me of all of the stories of drop dead gorgeous women he dated and wanted to date him. Even his first wife was :whew:

But I guess he found what he was looking for when he married my Aunt :manny: Total opposite of what he had and could've had when it came to the looks department, but they've been married for over forty years.

:childplease:
I know several women off the top of my head that are married and they lack the ability to be a mother, wife, or friend to anyone. All because the man liked the way they look or because he liked how their kids would look. Also these kinds of women are master manipulators and know how to run game on men. Thats why the divorce rate is so high now because a lot of married people had no business getting married in the first place.

:leon: repped
 

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The Women who actually cook, clean, don't use up ur credit card every chance they get

the women who actually have goals

the women who don't gold dig

the women who are loyal

the women who actually take care of there body and stay in shape and don't have guts

the women who don't have 2 or 3 kids by 4 different fathers


WHERE Are they ?
They just turned 18.

Or they're in the house babysitting 5 of their nieces, studying college books
 
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